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Originally Posted by lilyflower_1978
My husband told me last week he had been seeing someone else for a couple weeks. Said it wasn't sexual. It really hurt but the fact he told me without me finding out another way helped me still feel I could trust him. Maybe that doesn't make a lot of sense but I saw it as a turning point. I'm still not sure where we will end up but holding on to hope.
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Dear Lilyflower:
The fact that your husband came forward and told you means that he loves you and could not go thru with any infedelity. I would say you can trust him and be glad he told you. Although I know it hurts knowing he was talking to someone else. I just found out the wrong way that my boyfriend was talking to someone else. By accident i found on the computer and that they did go out one time but nothing happened. He lied about it to my face many times said he was with his friend Franky and swore to me he never lies. Well let me tell you he lied to me big time. Anyway if he had come forward and told me what he did but that he was wrong and still wants to be with me and promised to never lie or go behind my back that would be much better, trust me.
-Carey
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