A couple of weeks ago, I told you that my husband purchased a new labtop for himself. He did this in my opinion so that he can have his "Privacy" to surf whatever porn sites his heart desire and chat with whom every he like. The ONLY time he gets on his laptop is when I am not around. However, A couple of days ago, I opened his laptop and confirmed my suspisions. I saw that he had three different chat sessions going, one of which was an ex-girlfriend. I have pleaded and talked to him about this over and over again. Now I'm at the point that I don't give a damn anymore. I love him, but I'm not going to be made a fool of. I even confronted her as well, but they continue to keep in touch regardless of what I say. He states there are a million things he could be out in the streets doing, but he is at home and I know were he is at all times. He refuse to stop talking to this ex-girlfriend. He also has stated that her three year old daughter could possibly be his. Since all this has occured, I have re-opened my accounts on different dating sites. Since he wants to continue to surf the porn sites and chat with other women on Yahoo messenger, I'm going to start chatting as well. If this leads to divorce, then so be it. The difference is, I'm not going to hide not a damn thing from him. I will show him better than I can tell him. I'm just tired of the BS. It will only be two years in May that we have been married. We also have a 10 month old daughter caught up in this mess. i really just feel like leaving, but i know this would not be fair to my little girl. Any suggestions. PS i have mentioned counseling to him a million times.