Re: for the techies - text surveillance - help!
I'd set up an email account under my name for his phone activity. He changed it today, I think with her help.
What I have is a spreadsheet with texts to her home and cell phone number for 3 months. I have a copy of a downloaded email from his computer. No PROOF of PA but certainly an EA. SHE says in the email oh baby, baby my love....and "what will you do if she begs you not to leave you?" She speaks of her husband and their problems. He is not as effusive in the email. However, I also have journal writings in which he professes his love to her. He says "I want you, I need you, I love you. The email and copy of the journal are in the safe deposit box, he has no access to it.
You're right that she is tech saavy, has been helping him with all this.
THat's all I got!
It's time to confront. I don't know why I am so scared to. If I confront, there may be no future for us possibly. I want to save my marriage. I have the H cell phone number but that seems like too much drama for me. I have contacted an attorney and am ready to file for D if need be but really want to save my marriage.
He has agreed to MC due to our marital problems but is putting it off, says he needs 2 weeks.
My atty says just try to win him back but this is killing me. I have stomach pains, can't eat or sleep and hard to work. Crying all the time. Feel weak and sick.
Thank you any advise is helpful.