I don't think so,it was a stupid thing to do,as long as they truely learn from what they
did it, does'nt make them stupid.
Now I'm scratching my head. Posted via Mobile Device
I remember FWWs friend asking her when I went out the weekend of DDay "Do you think he's cheating on you?"
FWW said "I don't know."
Also: "I'm hurt you can move on so fast."
"The sex wasn't that good." (on why she kept going back) "I don't know."
"I cried in the car on the way home, and I was shaking." (on why she went back then, and moved onto more EAs during her PA) "I don't know, validation i guess."
Dday #1: "I told you everything" Dday #2 "I told you everything."
= "I knew what I did was wrong but kept on with the bangin' anyway. Now that I'm busted, maybe you will believe in something that which even I find ridiculous to even think about."
(6 months later to BGF's - "I couldn't believe how devastated he was")
"I didn't feel alive, I didn't feel like I mattered. He made me feel special and good about myself" (I'm paraphrasing here, it was all this type of BS and more)
"You shut me out; that is an act of infidelity" (I was actually cheating on her)
Yeah.
"The passion was gone"...I was still hot to trot.
" I fell out of love"...ugh
"You loved the person you wanted me too be,not the real me".....sigh. Posted via Mobile Device
I love the ones on Jerry Springer (I know, lousy/fake show-but so damn funny sometimes!) who start out with "Baby, you know that I love you with all of my heart and more than life itself, and you're the best thing that's ever happened to me, but I have something to tell you...I had sex with your best friend!"
When the BS asks why, then it's:
"WELL, YOU'RE SUCH A JERK! YOU NEVER MAKE ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF AND YOU'RE SO SELFISH! YOU'RE LAZY AND WOULD RATHER HANG OUT WITH YOUR DUMBASS FRIENDS AND I CAN'T STAND BEING WITH YOUR SORRY, LAZY, GOOD-FOR-NOTHING ASS ANYMORE!!!..."
"Hey, I'm sorry, alright!?!? But she was coming on to ME, and when I tried to tell her I was married, she and her male friends said that I must be gay or something, and I had to defend my honor!"
"Hey, I'm sorry, alright!?!? But she was coming on to ME, and when I tried to tell her I was married, she and her male friends said that I must be gay or something, and I had to defend my honor!"
Now, if I were the cheater, I'd greatly think that I'd have to give due consideration in telling the absolute truth, before adopting that sorry-assed excuse!
"I'm in a void." (I won't get out. And that void needs filling.. preferably with someone else's body parts. So until such time it gets filled enough, leave me alone.)
I have a friend who has caught her husband more than 5 times different AP, he even brought one home with her spouse. :crazy: well he said it's because his brother was always the "cute" one so be had to prove it to himself that he can attract a woman (5 women to be exact).
I think she's even crazier than him to put up with so much. Posted via Mobile Device
"I honestly thought you did not love me any more and now I know that you did." (That one just feels like I am to blame for her cheating)
"He was just nice to me, there for me all the time, and wrote all the right things." (as the OM would send her emails from work all day and I actually have to work all day)
"I built this fantasy version of him that I now see wasn't real." (long story, but the OM is not at all what she thought)
"I honestly do not know what I was thinking and I just never thought about that [getting caught]." (response to the question of why she thought I would never find out)
"Ok, I just want to be honest, ______ happened... but only once!"
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