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Examples of the cheater's Script in this thread A resource.

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#1 · (Edited)
Since starting my time at TAM I have learned a great deal about the Cheater's Script.

It seems that almost everyone who has an affair be they a doctor, a lawyer, a mechanic or a secretary, follows, by-and-large, the Cheater's Script.

This morning on the way to work, I had an idea for a thread which would collect all the Cheater's Script nonsense that cheaters seem to follow.

I'll start of with a few, please add your own. Hopefully this thread will become a useful resource.

I love you, but I'm no longer in love with you.

Claims that the marriage has been "bad" for x number of months/years, though said nothing about this alleged problem beforehand.

And now it's your turn to add some examples culled from the Cheater's Script!:D
 
#83 ·
I remember FWWs friend asking her when I went out the weekend of DDay "Do you think he's cheating on you?"

FWW said "I don't know."

Also: "I'm hurt you can move on so fast."

"The sex wasn't that good." (on why she kept going back) "I don't know."

"I cried in the car on the way home, and I was shaking." (on why she went back then, and moved onto more EAs during her PA) "I don't know, validation i guess."

Dday #1: "I told you everything" Dday #2 "I told you everything."



Before DDay: "I feel like we're room mates"
 
#91 ·
I love the ones on Jerry Springer (I know, lousy/fake show-but so damn funny sometimes!) who start out with "Baby, you know that I love you with all of my heart and more than life itself, and you're the best thing that's ever happened to me, but I have something to tell you...I had sex with your best friend!"

When the BS asks why, then it's:

"WELL, YOU'RE SUCH A JERK! YOU NEVER MAKE ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF AND YOU'RE SO SELFISH! YOU'RE LAZY AND WOULD RATHER HANG OUT WITH YOUR DUMBASS FRIENDS AND I CAN'T STAND BEING WITH YOUR SORRY, LAZY, GOOD-FOR-NOTHING ASS ANYMORE!!!..."

Then he says "Look, sis-I tried...":D
 
#99 ·
"He was going through a rough time, he was lonely: He needed me".
The old care-giver defense...

When I asked my wife, didn't you really know that you were just this big time Doc's f--k mistress. "I guess so." (her standard answer).

Followed up with... "He had been sick (stroke) and I guess I felt sorry for him."

I guess a get well card wasn't personal enough?
 
#103 ·
"Hey, I'm sorry, alright!?!? But she was coming on to ME, and when I tried to tell her I was married, she and her male friends said that I must be gay or something, and I had to defend my honor!"
Now, that is lame!

Now, if I were the cheater, I'd greatly think that I'd have to give due consideration in telling the absolute truth, before adopting that sorry-assed excuse!
 
#111 ·
I have a friend who has caught her husband more than 5 times different AP, he even brought one home with her spouse. :crazy: well he said it's because his brother was always the "cute" one so be had to prove it to himself that he can attract a woman (5 women to be exact).

I think she's even crazier than him to put up with so much.
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#113 ·
"He was just a friend"- yep

"I just needed a couple of days alone, by myself"

"I was in so much pain regarding the condition of our relationship, I just couldn't take it any more."

"I'm spending the nights with the girls at work"

"I bought those lacy bras for you"

"We aren't (at the time says she) good for each other"

"I've lost 17 pounds"

"Don't know the name of the lake I'm staying at tonight"

"His wife left him last year for another man- poor guy"

"The 75.00 bourbon I bought him, well, uh, it was a group of us at work that did that- not just me."
 
#114 ·
"I honestly thought you did not love me any more and now I know that you did." (That one just feels like I am to blame for her cheating)

"He was just nice to me, there for me all the time, and wrote all the right things." (as the OM would send her emails from work all day and I actually have to work all day)

"I built this fantasy version of him that I now see wasn't real." (long story, but the OM is not at all what she thought)

"I honestly do not know what I was thinking and I just never thought about that [getting caught]." (response to the question of why she thought I would never find out)
 
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