04-21-2010, 01:00 PM
Join Date: Jan 2010
| | Re: Wife Contacts Ex boyfriend after 25 years
I agree with hopeinHouston (well said). I think that the old boyfriend probably has a desire to get back with your wife and based on what you said, your wife may just be trying to get this apology off her chest with no alterior motives, however even if that is the case, she contacted him, stated what she had to say, and got a response. This is where it should end. There should be NO FURTHER CONTACT with him WHATSOEVER. If there is, then she probably wants something more with him. I wouldn't be angry with her, but I would tell her that I would expect no more contact between them. If there is, it will probably end badly. Then keep an eye out (for a while) just to make sure there is no more contact. After a certain amount of time passes (whatever you are comfortable with) if there has been no more attempt at contact, then I would believe it was all innocent on her part. Good Luck!