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post #16 of 656 (permalink) Old 10-18-2013, 07:11 PM
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Honestly, when someone is taking chemo it's because of cancer and who the hell wants that and for this woman to say those horrible things about him, I hope he goes to her work place and blows her and that other guys ass out of the water.

But then I was always one to believe that what goes around, comes around and I would pay money to see it when it happens to her.

I hope he plays that recording so everyone can here it and then they can see the type of woman she is. Man I thought my first wife was bad.

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Hence the warning of never listen if you hear them start getting busy. Trusted friend or ive done it for four others complete with transcripts. I put that warning on for a reason.

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Hence the warning of never listen if you hear them start getting busy. Trusted friend or ive done it for four others complete with transcripts. I put that warning on for a reason.

Sorry to hear your pain.
I've seen you post on many threads weightlifter and could never understand why you wouldn't want to here what was said on the VAR. Honestly I thought, "this guy is crazy. I want to know what is being said and to who...........until I heard what this guy posted on his thread. I was married twice and both cheated but lucky for me (yeah right) I found out way after the divorce so had time to get over the marriage but if v8crazy asked me to listen to this and then asked me what was on it, I would be a total wreck knowing that I would have to tell him what his wife said. Good God how in the hell to you tell a friend something like this? It would be like putting a gun to his head and pulling the trigger and how do you help him/her after you tell them?
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its not just the said part. That hurts. BUT Hearing another man making your woman moan in pleasure as he is inserting his peen between her legs is another level of mental destruction well beyond simple knowledge of cheating. The only one I think would be worse was seeing it.

RDMU is the one who has released and acknowledged I did stuff for him. The others have not and I dont release unreleased info from the others.
RDMU got two things from me
a synopsis of about 10 lines of facts which he had to have for his confront with his wife.
AND a more detailed transcript. IIRC he read this well after.
He was a mess and it simply was not in at that point to read all the details. I did it for him cause it wasnt my wife. It did cause me some anger as he had become a friend by then and I seriously wanted to harm Bob in bad bad ways. I mean it when I say DONT mess with my friends. He has never listened to the house VAR for the obvious reasons (mental damage) and ones unreleased I warned him about.

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I'm sorry V8, this is more than one person can handle, x3.

You are in my thoughts, you have lost hope, no one can carry on without it.

Will you think about something to hope for? Something good?
This world is an aweful place to live in, but there is always somthing to hope for.

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I have realized what has been heard can not be unheard. I always thought I was a real level headed guy who could shake off anything. I did not here them doing the deed It was her putting me down like I am slime. I know I am a good person that treats everybody with respect. It gets even stranger. Three years after we married my brother married her little sister. after 10 years she started fooling around (She was always a wild child and so was my brother) My little brother committed suicide by driving his car into a tree at high speed. It was ruled an accident but he always said if he was to do would be that way. He burned up.
Anyways back to problems at hand My treatments are a 4 hour drive away and I can't drive home. I am just tired of hurting mentally and physically.several years ago I was in a back car wreck that broke my back and shattered my pelvis. I hate this has become a woe is me story. On some days she can be an angel. It wasn't until I heard the recording of her talking to her older sister than her true feelings about my thinning hair-big nose came out. I think she is staying out of guilt. We have two kids 11-14 too. I just want them to be taken care of. My term life insurance expires in two years and it is enough to put them through a good college. After 2 years it will be very hard to get life insurance. I work for a nice company that lets me work around my schedule and some people are donating their hours to me I cant work enough hours to get insurance and my wife has a very good job with great insurance. that is why I am still around. I know a lot of people here are hurting like I am and my story is just another brick in the wall. Thanks everybody.
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We are all bricks in that wall... each one important.

It does sound like you are going through a lot.

Do you have anyone close to you, any friends or family who you can talk to?

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Its not a woe is me story, we all need to express ourselves if for no other reason then to process our emotions.

I'm sorry to hear about your brother.

My wife and I have 4 kids, she was diagnosed with MS some years ago, after 4 kids and many years of MS, she now walks with a walker. She is doing the best she can physically.

What I want to say is that people can have mixed emotions about how their life has turned out and still make right choices, that's what makes them quality people. I respect my wife and so it is easy to feel love for her

I value my wife's feelings and my kids respect more that strangers on the street or even people we know, and I value myself to much to become a shallow or vile person. You wife does not!!!

We will all lose our looks one day if we live long enough, love can see past the looks.

Your wife is a cheater first, her lack of love is typical for a cheater, without love she can only value shallow things.

Many very handsome men have had a wife cheat for no more reasons than your wife's.

Cheaters ALWAYS come up with reasons for why their cheating is ok.

If she is staying out of guilt, then she loves fake appearance more than a real person, I am glad I am not that way, how about you?

I just want to give you some perspective.

I will just remind you that you have a responsibility to be there for your kids if at all possible, no one can replace you in this world!

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Get back on the treatment for your children.


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Get back on the treatment for your children.
OMG! I completely agree to this! Your kids will be DEVASTATED when you are gone! Fight this cancer like hell and put it into remission!!!!!

File for divorce. I don't know what cancer you have, but the more you fight, the longer you have time with your children. Your children need you!

Please take care of yourself. Your scummy wife is NOT worth it! Your children are. Plus I'm assuming your wife will get the life insurance and she will spend it how she wants if you remain married.

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Courage my friend courage

As defined : The ability to face danger, difficulty, uncertainty, or pain without being overcome by fear or being deflected from a chosen course of action.

The single most important character trait a human can possess.

It compels you to make the right decision and when to make them

It enables you to feel peace of mind

It gives you inner strength

It affords you unquestionable respect from others most importantly
self-respect

It leaves you with no regret

It allows you to face fear.

This V8……. is what will define you at your time of death be it six months or six decades

It will be your legacy that you leave your children.

Show your finest quality from this point on.

Your wife is the other end of the spectrum. Cruelty/Cowardice

As defined:

Cruelty …..the quality or condition of being cruel
an act that deliberately causes pain and distress

law the infliction of pain, distress, or anguish, especially when it is long-term and considered extreme enough to be grounds for divorce

As defined :Cowardice
an absence of courage, or behavior that is cowardly
Synonyms .... Weakness

It entitles her to nothing but contempt

Endeavor to persevere for your love and happiness

Give up on yourself and others will follow

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Well I have non small cell carcinoma. I can't take how she flaunts her affair to me. She knows i am too week and sick and dependent on her for insurance. She has bought sheer lingerie and leaves it hanging around. this is not the person I married almost 25 years ago. I know see how people I read in the news papers snap and do something dumb. I think I could handle her &^%^#@* somebody better than her saying personal derogatory things about me. We never had a major fight our entire marriage. I canlt stress enough if you use a voice recorder get a trusted friend to listen to it first. She may say some things you DO NOT need to here. trust me. I wish I never would have bought one and my life is forever ruined. There is no going back. You can't put the Jeanie back in the bottle.
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Just because she says sometime doesn't make it true. Please talk to someone that realy cares for you. You are so much more than what you think about yourself now. She's not right, she's flawed. Please seek some help.
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Please put things in perspective, you are choosing to let the words of a liar and cheater hurt you.
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Well I have non small cell carcinoma. I can't take how she flaunts her affair to me. She knows i am too week and sick and dependent on her for insurance. She has bought sheer lingerie and leaves it hanging around. this is not the person I married almost 25 years ago. I know see how people I read in the news papers snap and do something dumb. I think I could handle her &^%^#@* somebody better than her saying personal derogatory things about me. We never had a major fight our entire marriage. I canlt stress enough if you use a voice recorder get a trusted friend to listen to it first. She may say some things you DO NOT need to here. trust me. I wish I never would have bought one and my life is forever ruined. There is no going back. You can't put the Jeanie back in the bottle.
I am praying for you and sending positive vibes to you and your kids.


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