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post #31 of 656 (permalink) Old 10-19-2013, 08:25 PM
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Just because she says sometime doesn't make it true. Please talk to someone that realy cares for you. You are so much more than what you think about yourself now. She's not right, she's flawed. Please seek some help.
^^^^ this!!!

What she said reflects on her not you!

Her actions in flaunting the affair are not good for your health. Please see a lawyer immediately. Take care of you.... and don't give her a second thought. It took her true nature and character 25 years to reveal itself to you.

None of us know when our time is called... take care of you until that time appears.


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This will pass, you will then turn around and ask yourself why you believed this biatch

Continue to post here, if you like to you are welcomed to PM me if you ever need to. Look at other threads, go to the social threads and have some laughs. Seek you friends and family. She's toxic.
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Well I have non small cell carcinoma. I can't take how she flaunts her affair to me. She knows i am too week and sick and dependent on her for insurance. She has bought sheer lingerie and leaves it hanging around. this is not the person I married almost 25 years ago. I know see how people I read in the news papers snap and do something dumb. I think I could handle her &^%^#@* somebody better than her saying personal derogatory things about me. We never had a major fight our entire marriage. I canlt stress enough if you use a voice recorder get a trusted friend to listen to it first. She may say some things you DO NOT need to here. trust me. I wish I never would have bought one and my life is forever ruined. There is no going back. You can't put the Jeanie back in the bottle.
Trust me, I am not trying to be hyperbolic, she is trying to legally kill you. You are supposed to give up, do assisted suicide or some other crap to make it easier for her. Live for your kids, fight for you kid and then divorce her once you are healthy.

Tuck that recording away and save it for later. I know cancer survivors and their kids LOVE the extra years they received whether it was one or ten.
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Are you sure there's no other way for you to get your health insurance?
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Trust me, I am not trying to be hyperbolic, she is trying to legally kill you. You are supposed to give up, do assisted suicide or some other crap to make it easier for her. Live for your kids, fight for you kid and then divorce her once you are healthy.

Tuck that recording away and save it for later. I know cancer survivors and their kids LOVE the extra years they received whether it was one or ten.
She doesn't know he knows how evil she is.

Oh. Unless... do you think she spotted the VAR and used it to mess with his mind?


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She doesn't know he knows how evil she is.

Oh. Unless... do you think she spotted the VAR and used it to mess with his mind?
No, poor writing. In my head, I was responding to the part about lingerie and flaunting the affair. Then you add the mess with the recorder and openly being a jerk.
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Do you know who she's cheating with? Put him on cheaterville.com along with your condition. Folks will scorch him.


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Are you sure there's no other way for you to get your health insurance?
Not until they start excepting pre-exhisting conditions.
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I am about at the point that I don't care anymore.
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The only thing I can honestly come up with is for him to see a lawyer, file for divorce and being that his condition requires medical attention (to put it mildly), when the divorce is finalized and she is the only one working who has insurance, maybe the judge can issue a court order for her to pay for his coverage. IS THERE A LAWYER IN THE HOUSE!! Does anyone know a lawyer and ask? This is serious and the sooner he speaks to one, the better off he will be. Please consult an attorney.

I only know that the way his wife is, there is no doubt in my mind that pay back is a bit@# . I don't know how she can look herself in the mirror. She better hope there isn't a hell.

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I can't take how she flaunts her affair to me. She knows i am too week and sick and dependent on her for insurance. She has bought sheer lingerie and leaves it hanging around.
I believe she's trying to run you off Dawg. Don't let her. Your so called marriage is over but she's on the hook to keep you up. Like my uncle said, "if you've got a cow, milk it." The cow doesn't have to love and respect you. It would be really nice if she loved you and furnished your support. Since she doesn't you, her having to furnish your support ain't a bad consolation prize. View it as pre-alimony.
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So you and your late brother married the slime sisters huh?

Pigs.

Take the recording and convert it to a WAV file. Send it out on an e- mail to all your family and mutual friends with a short intro telling them what it is a recording of. Why not? Even if she files for divorce out of spite she has to continue carrying you on her insurance until the D is final. I'd burn up her life if I were in your position and had those recordings.
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The POSMFOM is her supervisor. They have a safety meeting 2 hours away in two weeks. She will drive. I have recordings already converted to mp3. I am staying quiet until after their trip so I can have his voice recorded. The work for the city and I will send it to the council. I know how people snap and do stupid crap. I am not going to but when I read about I will have sympathy now.
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If you have life insurance, have you changed the beneficary?

If you do then make sure your WW getts none of it and make the changes so you children will get the dough.
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There is better life for you, but you gotta earn it. Stop the self pity, be a man and fight. It wont get worse than this.
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