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post #46 of 656 (permalink) Old 10-20-2013, 01:47 AM
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The POSMFOM is her supervisor. They have a safety meeting 2 hours away in two weeks. She will drive. I have recordings already converted to mp3. I am staying quiet until after their trip so I can have his voice recorded. The work for the city and I will send it to the council. I know how people snap and do stupid crap. I am not going to but when I read about I will have sympathy now.
Recordings made using a VAR in the car are illegal. If you send them to anyone you could end up prosecuted.

Check the laws in your state and maybe even with an attorney to see if there are any loopholes.

Also, if you send the recording she will most likely lose her job. You will lose your medical insurance. Your CHILDREN will lose their medical insurance. The loss of your wife's job will cause you and your children financial hardship.

If she does not want to reconcile and/or you do not want to reconcile, take your evidence and see a divorce attorney. Either get a legal separation or a divorce.

Let her keep her job, provide medical insurance to you until you can get it elsewhere. YOu will probably be paying you alimony and child support as well.

Be smart about this.


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You have snapped. A person who snaps doesn't just have to maim, murder or physical hurt people.

You are preparing to do a bunch of vengeful and vindictive acts that will hurt YOU.

She loses her job, the insurance stops and you get no more treatment.
You send illegal recordings and the council punishes you.
You seek no more treatment and you die.


Everything you are doing is irrational and will only punish yourself and you children.
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Get the chemo. Stick with the treatments.

Get the OM's voice on the recorder.

Revenge is best served with you alive with your kids.

Your wife will get hers in the future.

It is only sticks and stones my friend. Pay her words no attention.

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V8

Get the chemo. Stick with the treatments.

Get the OM's voice on the recorder.

Revenge is best served with you alive with your kids.

Your wife will get hers in the future.

It is only sticks and stones my friend. Pay her words no attention.

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Live long and drive her nuts and love your children.

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Live long and drive her nuts and love your children.
I wish I had said that. My ears are pointy!
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I will not jepordise her job yet. If I leave I have nowhere to go. All of my family has passed except for mu mother but she is in a home with Alzheimer's. The only person I trusted with my life has turned on me. I have tried my best I don't smoke,drink or do drugs.I am at a loss of what to do.I have already had my life insurance swapped to the kids when they turn 19.How can my angel turn into the devil so fast.
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Are you betting back on your chemo? We really want to make sure that you are taking care of your medical needs.


Do you have the strength to confront her with what you know now? Just her?

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I went to the cancer center today to resume treatment. I was informed my insurance has been canceled and I would have to pay cash. My wife dropped me off her insurance and They turned me away. So much for how much they care commercials. I may get a lawyer but that will take months to get anything done .I never did anything wrong to her. She just found somebody else that is rich. How can somebody grow so cold. I thought Obama would fix this. I am a walking dead man. The cancer places only care about money. They pretty much told me to take a hike. If I was an illegal immigrant I would be saved. But you know what I don't care anymore. One year ago I was a happy man living with the woman I loved and had a great job and two kids. All it took was one woman that fell in love with another man to kill me. It is time to sign off
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She was never a angel, my friend. People don`t change this much that quickly. And if your children are not enough to make you want to fight and live, nothing we say will change that. Regardless, you have my deepest sympathy.
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Time for scorched earth. If she has not filed, her dropping you from insurance was insurance fraud. She can only do so for change of status and that would require a judge to sign off on a divorce!

Tell her she can fix it or go to jail for insurance fraud.

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I went to the cancer center today to resume treatment. I was informed my insurance has been canceled and I would have to pay cash. My wife dropped me off her insurance and They turned me away. So much for how much they care commercials. I may get a lawyer but that will take months to get anything done .I never did anything wrong to her. She just found somebody else that is rich. How can somebody grow so cold. I thought Obama would fix this. I am a walking dead man. The cancer places only care about money. They pretty much told me to take a hike. If I was an illegal immigrant I would be saved. But you know what I don't care anymore. One year ago I was a happy man living with the woman I loved and had a great job and two kids. All it took was one woman that fell in love with another man to kill me. It is time to sign off
Courage

Go fight for your life and kick the sh!t out of her and the POSOM if they are in your path.

Endeavor to persevere for your love and happiness

Give up on yourself and others will follow

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I went to the cancer center today to resume treatment. I was informed my insurance has been canceled and I would have to pay cash. My wife dropped me off her insurance and They turned me away. So much for how much they care commercials. I may get a lawyer but that will take months to get anything done .I never did anything wrong to her. She just found somebody else that is rich. How can somebody grow so cold. I thought Obama would fix this. I am a walking dead man. The cancer places only care about money. They pretty much told me to take a hike. If I was an illegal immigrant I would be saved. But you know what I don't care anymore. One year ago I was a happy man living with the woman I loved and had a great job and two kids. All it took was one woman that fell in love with another man to kill me. It is time to sign off
Just as I said She is a cruel coward

V8 Please re read my post #27

Endeavor to persevere for your love and happiness

Give up on yourself and others will follow
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Please see a lawyer ASAP. Ask specifically if she can drop you from her insurance. I would not give up this easily. Run them both through the wringer and expose high and low.
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you need to survive. Do not leave your poor kids to depend on this POS. Get to a lawyer today.
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How is it that she just dropped you? She can't if you don't have other coverage, she could only do this during open enrollment and that's normaly at the beginning of the year.. You are also entitled to COBRA.
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