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post #61 of 656 (permalink) Old 10-23-2013, 07:55 AM
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Go talk to someone in the department of human services, see if you can get on medicaid or an indigent program

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It is hard to decide what to do. I decided to go to chemo therapy and they turned me away. My insurance has been cancelled. how can they do that. if I was an illegal i would get treatment. I didn't have the 3500 dollars cash so the receptionist said sorry. I swear I have never raised my voice in anger to her or abused her in any way.. I am guilty of becoming complacent. Next month is our 25 anniversary. I guess I am guilty of being boring. I have put my truck up fpr sale but that may pay for two treatments. I think I have decided to go see the Grand Canyon and Redwood Forrest instead. Two years ago I thought I was the luckiest man alive. I know I will never give my heart to another woman. I have always treated them with respect and kindness. maybe I need to be a a$$ hole and treat them like crap. that seems to be what most want. O well another night up till dawn.
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I went to the cancer center today to resume treatment. I was informed my insurance has been canceled and I would have to pay cash. My wife dropped me off her insurance and They turned me away. So much for how much they care commercials. I may get a lawyer but that will take months to get anything done .I never did anything wrong to her. She just found somebody else that is rich. How can somebody grow so cold. I thought Obama would fix this. I am a walking dead man. The cancer places only care about money. They pretty much told me to take a hike. If I was an illegal immigrant I would be saved. But you know what I don't care anymore. One year ago I was a happy man living with the woman I loved and had a great job and two kids. All it took was one woman that fell in love with another man to kill me. It is time to sign off
Why would it take months to get an attorney?

See if you can get one to do an emergency hearing to force you wife to re-establish your insurance.

Your wife is liable for your medical bills by the way. Does she realize this?

Check with your local cancer association to see where you can get care.
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It is hard to decide what to do. I decided to go to chemo therapy and they turned me away. My insurance has been cancelled. how can they do that. if I was an illegal i would get treatment. I didn't have the 3500 dollars cash so the receptionist said sorry. I swear I have never raised my voice in anger to her or abused her in any way.. I am guilty of becoming complacent. Next month is our 25 anniversary. I guess I am guilty of being boring. I have put my truck up fpr sale but that may pay for two treatments. I think I have decided to go see the Grand Canyon and Redwood Forrest instead. Two years ago I thought I was the luckiest man alive. I know I will never give my heart to another woman. I have always treated them with respect and kindness. maybe I need to be a a$$ hole and treat them like crap. that seems to be what most want. O well another night up till dawn.
Don't understand why you can't see an attorney asap? Why would it take months? Like another poster said, she can't just drop you off the insurance like that. Why don't you see a lawyer and see what your options are?
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All the lawyers want money up front. It also seems like she went around and bought an hours time with several and that can't see me they say.
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All the lawyers want money up front. It also seems like she went around and bought an hours time with several and that can't see me they say.
Surely there are some that she did not buy an hour with.

You need to get an attorney and get the insurance turned back on. Have the attorney ask the court for her to pay your legal fees since she did something malicious in turning off your insurance.
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Time for scorched earth. If she has not filed, her dropping you from insurance was insurance fraud. She can only do so for change of status and that would require a judge to sign off on a divorce!

Tell her she can fix it or go to jail for insurance fraud.


Nothing less than this!

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Yall were right. I went to HR and insurance has not been dropped. So I went to HR to see supervisor. (wife works in the HR dept.) Somebody called oncologist office and told them that there were problems with insurance. Apparently exposure ticked someone off. This is going to get real ugly real fast. I finally talked to an attorney and she is going to be in for a surprise. i did not know I was entitled to half of her retirement account. But she gets half of mine. She has one of those government jobs with a real pension. i am going to have to file a QDRO. her retirement is worth almost 900,000 and mine is about 45 grand. But I am stuck right now because I cant change any insurance until the (in my opinion) the only slightly decent part of Obamacare comes into play. pre-existing conditions.
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That was smart of you.

Now find an attorney that can work with you and nail her.

She probably can be brought up on charges for her fake call about the insurance.

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Something smells off....you outed them?
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We all came in this world alone with nothing. We all will leave this world alone with nothing. In the meantime, all we can do is fight fight fight.

Keep on living my friend.
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Yall were right. I went to HR and insurance has not been dropped. So I went to HR to see supervisor. (wife works in the HR dept.) Somebody called oncologist office and told them that there were problems with insurance. Apparently exposure ticked someone off. This is going to get real ugly real fast. I finally talked to an attorney and she is going to be in for a surprise. i did not know I was entitled to half of her retirement account. But she gets half of mine. She has one of those government jobs with a real pension. i am going to have to file a QDRO. her retirement is worth almost 900,000 and mine is about 45 grand. But I am stuck right now because I cant change any insurance until the (in my opinion) the only slightly decent part of Obamacare comes into play. pre-existing conditions.
V8 forget the courage I have been encouraging you about

You just showed some Ball$

I like that

Keep it up Go after everything with as much brutality as you can muster

Endeavor to persevere for your love and happiness

Give up on yourself and others will follow
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Yall were right. I went to HR and insurance has not been dropped. So I went to HR to see supervisor. (wife works in the HR dept.) Somebody called oncologist office and told them that there were problems with insurance. Apparently exposure ticked someone off. This is going to get real ugly real fast. I finally talked to an attorney and she is going to be in for a surprise. i did not know I was entitled to half of her retirement account. But she gets half of mine. She has one of those government jobs with a real pension. i am going to have to file a QDRO. her retirement is worth almost 900,000 and mine is about 45 grand. But I am stuck right now because I cant change any insurance until the (in my opinion) the only slightly decent part of Obamacare comes into play. pre-existing conditions.
Glad you cleared that up, she has no heart.
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I had finally had as much as a man could take. yes I exposed it and it took some doing. I am not sure if what I did was legal or not but I found he had a Facebook page but my wife never had Facebook. I made an account under my wife's name one night and sent him a friend request. Five minutes later he excepted. I was in. Now his friends and family showed up where before everything before was private. I sent a message to his wife and then posted everything on his wall at 3 in the AM. The stinky stuff hit the fan the next day and I received a friend request from his wife. I can't believe this is my life and not some nightmare. I am a stage 4 cancer and I wished she would have at least pretended to love me for another few months to a couple of years. I knew something was going on but I just refused to live in the real world I was in. She is not remorseful she is just pissed his wife and everybody at her work knows. I have just reached the point that I don't care anymore. I am still starting my treatments next week anyway. Thanks for support.
Edit I deleted the facebook account under my wifes name later in the day and sent him a friend request under my name. i am still waiting but I expect he will refuse. I have an appointment to see him next Tuesday under another name. This will be my first face to face with the POSOM. After months of being a baby I am going nuclear.

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