My husband had an emotional affair / makeout session with a coworker. He told me almost exactly 6 months ago. It has been a very very rough 6 months but we were finally making good progress, and he promises he had zero contact with her except in passing.
Today I find out he has been assigned to work on a project with her at work that will require weekly meetings and some one on one discussions. He did not tell me this directly I found out by his calendar and confronted him. I am devastated he wasn't honest.
He says he couldn't tell me because I would react irrationally. The thought of him passing her daily in the hall was bad enough, how can I now deal with lengthy discussions?
He says he has no choice but to work with her...
What should I do? Be miserable everyday thinking of them chatting? And who knows where that will lead again. He promises he can 'handle' himself. Please help. I want to save my marriage but it seems to be getting harder and harder.
Today I find out he has been assigned to work on a project with her at work that will require weekly meetings and some one on one discussions. He did not tell me this directly I found out by his calendar and confronted him. I am devastated he wasn't honest.
He says he couldn't tell me because I would react irrationally. The thought of him passing her daily in the hall was bad enough, how can I now deal with lengthy discussions?
He says he has no choice but to work with her...
What should I do? Be miserable everyday thinking of them chatting? And who knows where that will lead again. He promises he can 'handle' himself. Please help. I want to save my marriage but it seems to be getting harder and harder.