05-10-2010, 08:14 PM
Join Date: May 2010
| | Husband Involved in an Emotional Affair
I have never posted to a forum to seek advice, but I really could use some input. Last week, my husband told a close friend of mine that he had met someone and wanted to talk to her about it. She told him to tell me about it. After she told me, I confronted him before he had a chance to tell me. He said things like, I don't know how it happened, she is like my soul mate and I would be with her if I hadn't met you and all kinds of things that ripped me apart. So, of course I reacted as many people do and got angry and then I cried. To make a long story short, we spent quite a bit of time, two days talking about what might have caused him to seek out someone else. I thought we were moving forward, but I was wrong. I have complete access to his phone records, so I started checking them daily. After he said he would end their conversations, two days went by and he called her again. Of course, I freaked out. Told him that I couldn't understand why he needed to call her again after he had just spoken to her two days before. He said he didn't understand the rules and would not call her again. Go figure. Anyway, I dont really know what to do at this point. I sure could use some input from others.