06-15-2010, 06:37 AM
Join Date: Jan 2010
| | Re: Some one please read and help me I am out of options
Originally Posted by jar
So instead of calling I texted her tonight. Just to test the waters. I know it is not a good way to have a conversationÖIt didnít go well.
I explained that I love her and that I donít want this divorce and I donít want to go to this meeting tomorrow. I also apologized for my anger and that I regretted some of the things I said and did over the past two weeks.
She said please show up to the meeting
I responded I am just not ready
Then she told me to let her go
I said I didnít want to do this and that I donít want this divorce
I asked if we could postpone
She replied how long I need answers I said a while
She then responded you are not going to change my answer
I then said you are my wife and I am your husband and I am just not ready to face this. I donít want this
She responded that she doesnít want to be married any more and that I stated my case a 100 times.
I told her I wasnít trying to change her mind just trying to express how I feel.
I then said I donít think I can do this mediation tomorrow, I am not ready and that I may cancel
She said ok and then goodnight.
She was just so cold, not caring, or thoughtful like her old self. She was kind of mean, direct and angry with me. She was like this 2 weeks ago in our counseling session. Totally not like her at all. Especially the past two months.
I think that hope is lost on her. How can I love a woman like this so much? I feel like poop tonight..
We will see what tomorrow brings but I think I am going to cancel our mediation tomorrow. What a way to man upÖ
well I think next time ask her face to face what exactly is the reason for her asking for divorce & what makes her act mean , direct and angry with you .
You need to listen to her ridiculous excuses & if you think it is not fixable & completely bs , tell her to f* off & get rid of her because you would certainly be better off without her . So far you have handled it the best way . You can't stay with a partner who is not willing at all , begging and pleading will never work so dont even think of trying that .