06-12-2010, 11:21 PM
Join Date: May 2010
| | Re: what does this mean and what do I do next?
Well, I should of seen this coming.....my husband was asked by my son to spend the night at his birthday sleep-over tonight. He said yes several days ago to this. Around 2 hours ago he tells me he is uncomfortable being in the house and is going home . He says he doesn't want the kids use to him being in the home.I reminded him that this was about a request by his son and he should of said No when asked. He made every excuse to leave and he did leave. He just had to get back to her. This fog has not lifted and now I dont think it will. This hurts me on a level I didn't think was possible. He just wants to be the good guy, my son will be upset in the morning and he could care less. I could have used help with all the kids here but he did not care enough to stay for one night. I dont know if I can continue with Plan A, he doesn't seem to care at all, I feel he will always return to her after getting his family time. He denied leaving because of her but yet he didn't stay . I cant keep doing this, it's been going on too long now. I am very discouraged, I really needed his help and my son just wanted time with his Dad. Time he cant spare. He made his choice- to not end his relationship.