06-14-2010, 04:09 PM
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Pacific Northwest
| | Re: red handed and still denies
I caught my wife red handed and she wont admit it even with three other witnesses. we are all lieing!?? I can forgive the mistake if she showed renorse or admitted to what I SAW. What do I do?
Two things: this is completely 'normal' behavior - happens most of the time. You can catch them in bed, naked, and 'not sleeping' and they will still say 'it isn't what you think.'
Second: you CAN forgive (that's a decision you make) - you CHOOSE not to forgive her until she fulfills certain conditions you laid out for her.
That should not be the issue, however: more importantly - is this affair still going on? If not, is your wife willing to work on the marriage?