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She asked me out.

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So, just like 10 minutes ago I got a call from her. It was pertaining to our kid and then she asked me out on a date, lol. Now, she has been trying to bang me for months. It started on D-day and it really hasn't stopped. Although the last few weeks leading up to a divorce- (that was finalized last week) she was going from angry super diva b!tch on wheels too, I can't live without you I need you type person. So... Yeah. Now I said, "on your dollar homeslice, I might consider it". And she said, "Well yeah, silly bear that's why I'm asking you". I said "where"? and she was like "anywhere you want" So I said a restaurant that is five star and famous. And she agreed.

Now, I'm not inclined to miss out on a 5 star meal. I mean for a lonely ole' civil servant that maybe pulls in 50 grand a year, this sounds pretty good. And plus, I think I just need to bang her out a bit. Really, I can't think of any reason not to do this. Divorce is done and done. Marriage is dissolved.

So.... Yeah, I think it's a great idea.

So TAM. Am I in the clear here. Or am I batsh!t nuts just like my ex, lol.

Thoughts?

I know this opening doors for crazy stuff to happen. But in all honesty, I do really, really miss her.
 
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#245 ·
TopsyTurvy

What you see as revenge is in fact a BS moving on with his life.

He is still a great Dad.

But he is his own man.

And while you think he is playing with his exwife she is in no way controlled by Flood.

She is free to walk away from him at anytime. Flood has made that clear.

Flood is right however. Others need the help right now.

HM
 
#247 ·
Flood, you are living your own life on your terms. That is what we all should be doing if we want to be happy. I just want to say thank you for the work that you do. We just had a tragedy here in the Boston area where two men lost their lives fighting a vicious fire. It takes a special person with a different mindset and heart to do what you all do. God bless you and all those that risk their lives for others.
 
#255 ·
Sidney,

Flood's wife has winning him back as a goal. She may accept that he will not marry and her desire is to have him be an SO in a monogamous LTR. Her strategy now is to have sex often and out compete rivals.

The longer she does it the greater her chances of success. Also, Flood did not mention it but they have a child and when sleeps over they must be eating pancakes together. That is a strong attraction: a sexually enthusiastic, loving woman and a happy son.

It may be an even happier state than marriage.
 
#256 ·
Thanks. I understand better now. What I'm harping on is simple fairness. As long as she explicitly knows, then she's operating from full information and I have no problems at all with it. If she doesn't know, she's being manipulated even if she is willing to be manipulated.

And yes, I agree. The longer it goes on, the stronger the new relationship gets.
 
#257 ·
Don't really see the problem here. Flood has moved on with his life, and she asked to be a piece of his new life. That's her choice. He told her what the deal is and she agreed anyway to being in the situation with him she is now.

Hell, she might think with what she did, she's lucky that he still considers her someone worth connecting with. Lots of folks would only be thinking of their cheating ex strapped to a railroad about to get that karma train....with no brakes.

She gets to spend the night from time to time, have complete quality time with her son and even get it in with the guy she sh*tted all over. That's some damn soft revenge if that's what it is.
 
#260 ·
Yes, it would be nice to know how you two are doing. I remember you told us she asked you out on a date. Are you developing any closer feelings for each other. You were pretty adamant that reconciliation was never to be in the cards, but, as the old saying goes, time heals all wounds. If it just wasn't for those damn pictures! :mad: And, if you do come back here, would you please explain the significance of the picture you chose for your avatar? It's probably as obvious as the nose on my face, but for the life of me I can't figure out what it is. :confused:
 
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