Re: Wife Excessively Text Messaging Male Friend
Coolcat, I can relate to this situation. I have been married for 2 years and have been texting a guy friend of mine. At first, the texts were all friendly and we were texting about 10-30 times per day (like your wife). My husband and I hardly ever see eachother though. I work days and he works nights. I was lonely every night and had this "friend" to talk to. Well as time went by, the texting turned into an all day thing. It showed on my phone bill that I had sent 9,000 texts per month! My husband is not very obserative and never noticed. Our texts turned into more than friendly ones and I thought about leaving my husband for this guy. I do not want to scare you but I suggest that you ask her to stop texting him and if she wants to be friends with him, that he should be your friend as well and communicate with you. I no longer speak to this guy that I used to text but it was very difficult to stop because it got addictive. Hopefully, your wife won't get to this point. Best of luck to you!