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How about beta girl.

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I want one.
 
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I wouldn't like Beta as in completely lacking any kind of confidence or being able to stand up and be speak your mind.

But having a girl who's a tad bit more dependent then your typical woman, as in needing you for a lot for confirmation and general contact. Guess it would make that "I'm your protector" need in me feel pretty good, knowing you're really wanted and stuff. Guess you could say it strokes the ego too.

Guess clingy is the word most people would use. So unlike dudes who tend to not like clingy girls, I tend to like some clingyness. Not exactly stalker level, but "please let me sit with you all night" clingy.
 
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We exist. But for some I would say life has taught us that we will only get screwed over sadly. Since our attraction to natural aplha's also means they are much more likely to be douches.
 
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I think I get what you're saying... i dated a guy for a very short period. One if the things he did that drove me insane was to cater to me... get me water, carry my shopping bags, etc. Drove me insane. I want an equal, not made to feel like a dependent child. My son makes me carry his crap for him all of the time. Me? Fully capable. I could never be in a relationship that made me feel dependent in any way. Maybe a lot of that has to do with the fact that my mom stayed in a miserable marriage for years because she was too scared to live on her own. She is on her 3rd marriage and dated all of the a few months.... she is extremely Co - dependent.

OP there are ethnicities you could target if that is what floats your boat.
 
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For me having someone dote on makes me feel like I'm not an equal in the relationship. That I'm perceived as being the weaker sex, I suppose. I don't mind chivalry to a point, but constant doting irritates me. I'm not a princess, not incapable. I am however a divorced mom that left an abusive marriage...

It was recently that I realized that anyone that threatens me feeling capable of taking care of myself makes that person hard for me to be around. I support myself, own my home, have no family for help, run marathons... I'm strong and used to taking care of myself.

I am on crutches with a broken foot, I wouldn't even ask a recent friend I had over to get my phone from the counter. (I'm also obviously very stubborn. )

I admire your desire to care and take care of your woman, for me it makes me feel perceived as weak / not an equal... and I don't like feeling like that. Most women are not like me. One of my best friends is a very successful entrepreneur, and she does want the chivalry, feeling taken care of, etc.

And just for edification the instance with the shopping bag... it was one small bag that had a sweater for my child in it. And I wasn't on crutches then :)
 
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I have been known to (1) do mending (2) bake very nice goodies and (3) give spectacular BJ's but only when I FEEL like giving. The un-deserving can read it and weep, and there is nobody currently who I've found to be deserving. So there it is. No outlet for even a Beta hobbyist. :rofl:

In fact, I'm even switching to the boy-nickname I had when I was a kid. Manning up. Sorry, have even let the hair on my legs grow until I have an occasion to wear a dress or rub em up against someone/thing.
 
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