Actually, I have a strong suspicion that there is an OW here, posing as a BS, looking for feedback about whether the husband has emotions for her, or if she's just a booty call.
I saw verbatim duplicates of her threads here at another forum, where she did get sniffed out and called on the carpet by other posters. (and has since disappeared)She's been doing it there even longer. She comes back with different usernames, posting the same story repeatedly.She disregards all of the usual advice regarding confronting,exposure,recovery, reconciliation, etc., and keeps bringing the focus back to whether or not we think her H is emotionally invested in the OW.
I thought about mentioning this a few days ago, when I saw the duplicates, but I didn't want to jump the gun, and make a snap judgment..........
It really angers me, when someone pushes our compassion buttons, and we take the time to provide thoughtful responses, only to find out it was all a ruse . A ruse to ply us for information so she can continue to participate in the betrayal of an innocent party. And I feel that it makes a mockery of the very real pain that a BS goes through.