Re: Caught my husband sexting
I'm here giving an update on my situation. So we decided to go to marriage counseling and for 2 weeks we had made alot of progress, biggest was learning to commujnicate with each other. On one of his weekly visits we planned to take my son and nephew to the beach, and something told me to check his email. So after looking thru his email he had another phone that sent all his text to his emails. I found that 2 years ago he had been texting a woman he use to work with for 6 months. in those months we had gotten married by church, and had been trying to get pregnant. I felt even more betrayed and ended the marriage. I fell into depression and started seeing a therapist, as did he. I moved in with my mother and concentrated on my son, work and school. not make this story so long my husband and i talked everyday he apologized about what he did and told me he never met up with her or had sex with her and i called her she confirmed it the worst they did was send pictures which supposedly were innocent pictures. We decided to do marriage counseling. We are together now but my biggest thing is that i dont trust him at all, i check his phone, his emails every account he ever had. Im scared that something else will creep out of his closet. All though he has told me he has not talked to anyone else. Its been 7 months and im still hurt. i try not to associate our current arguments with what he did but its hard not to. Ill give him this much he has changed he has become a better father and husband. I do think about leaving him alot but I dont because for me its to late in the game who wants to sleep with me? especially now that my body has changed, only him so why not be with him. Everyone please dont get me wrong i still love him but the degree of love has lessened. I feel that our wedding in church was not started with true fidelity, and he robbed those moments of us enjoying our child together from me, and my life has changed so much. im still struggling I now know I am not the only one in this position. If any one needs more help please contact me. I havent included everything that is going on in my situation just so i can keep it short.