09-08-2010, 06:20 AM
Join Date: Feb 2010
| | Re: 1 year since wifes PA. I'm still hurting at times.
If you want to know the details the general rule is, The Sooner the Better.
If you are like me on this, seems most men are, they need to know that truth from their wives about their affairs.
There is some curiosity (who is this woman I thought loved me). There is some need to be caught up (who has she been with, why). There is a need for closure (I am tired of wondering). All these are real honest feelings. If she really wants to repent, then honesty is the first step. But here is the real reason you need the truth, all of it...
She has lied, betrayed, and concealed. In my case 6 years of multiple affairs. If she cannot or will not admit the whole truth once exposed, then she is still betraying me. In a sense, she is still cheating.