Quicksand

No, she's not going to change. People rarely change, and at 40, it basically doesn't happen. And change has never been forced on someone outside of a more or less a longterm hostage situation.

If you can't handle being the most important, but not only man in her life, then it's time to go.
I can't for the life of me, understand why you went down this road to start with.

Corkey88

Am a pretty sure I was in love with her 10 years ago when I first met her and prior to learning about her past promiscuity. Sometimes love will make you do strange things and see the world through rose-colored glasses.

unbelievable

Some relationships become habits, much like smoking. Even though they are killing us and really adding nothing to our lives, we mindlessly continue. I'm sure she's quite attractive, but I'd rather have a "5" in my bed than a "10" in someone else's. Besides, a five two times=10. You may be in love with an illusion and not objectively calculating what exactly this person adds to your life. Too many lovely, lonely people out there for you to be pressing your nose against the window waiting for one to decide it's time to come home.

Corkey88

Yes she is very attractive but I have dated attractive women before that I wasn't in love with. I realize you think it is all about sex but I will honestly tell you, that is not the case. There is a connection for me that goes far beyond the physical.

Yes I know all my friends say leave as does everyone on this board but yet I struggle. My head says go but my heart says stay. I feel like if I do stay, I am betting everything on the roll of the dice, but on the other hand, I want so desperately to believe her.

turnera

OFFSPRING - SELF ESTEEM LYRICS

Corkey88

Haha...not even close to that, however, it did make me laugh so thanks for that.