07-13-2008, 01:57 PM
Join Date: Jul 2008
| | Help...I feel so alone
I just found out that my husband of five years has been having an emotional affair with someone in his field of work. They do not work in the same office, yet at times the two work places overlap. He denied it when I questioned him and only until I showed the proof did he admit. I suspected something a few weeks before so started to log a suspecious number he was dialing on his phone. I noticed that he called it everyday right before he came home to me (on his way from work). he denies having any physical contact with her, but how do I know that is true?
I am so lost....confused...alone and I don't know what to do. How can I ever trust him if we try to work it out. On the other hand, I can't think of being withought him. He said he was sorry, yet doesn't show much emotion as if he doesn't really care. At one point when I he was denying it, he said that we were over because I was calling him a liar and did not trust him.
Help...Where do I start and what do I do?