07-28-2008, 04:54 PM
Join Date: Jun 2008
| | Re: Premarrital Affair
I didn't get to find out that my wife did as you did, cheat while we were engaged until years later when she cheated again. Nice way to add more hurt to the then current revelation.
I recommend that you NEVER tell her, never.
However, do that if you are sure you will NEVER cheat again. I mean 50 years of not cheating.
Tell it to your confessor instead. Carry the guilt.
On the other hand, if you are weak like my wife is, and will likely cheat again, then you should tell so she can make decisions about her life--with or without you.