Re: Could someone explain this "fog"
My thinking is, if she is so active in being with OM's and web site stuff, and hanging out with single friend will she really have the time to screwing you over? Secondly, she kepts telling you that you will suffer the consequences, well granted you will, but won't you both feel the consequences?
I believe she will and if you play our cards right you may come out looking like the stronger guy, so take the hits, you will one way or another. Take the hit and this will let her know that the whole "consequence" thing won't work and she (hopefully) stop playing that consequence card. At the very least you will look more confident in... "I can handle this and screw you", kind of thing.
I can't imagin loosing every thing but she will lose too( I think). Some times we/her have to hit rock bottom befor we can pick our selves up. Is there a verse for that:-)
Good luck Mark, it looks like your between a rock and a hard place, just dont let her know that. You will find a way and you will figure this out with out her threatening you all the time, that bs. Got out from under that.