Since going into details would consume and ungodly amount of time and energy let me just ask the following;
How do I combat an Emotional Affair?
How do I get her to admit to rug sweeping?
How do I combat the situation with the affair underground?
How do I get her to realize the damage that she has done?
Am I willing to kill the relationship between us? - Yes
Do I want to? - No
Yes, Kids are involved.
No, It has not gone Physical, but I cannot disprove phone sexting.
I am the bread winner.
She refuses to go transparent at all.
She insists he no longer feels in love with her nor her with him. (Details on this if asked can be provided)
She still has him as a FB Friend, but a hidden one and has removed me from her list.
When I asked to see her phone I got derailed by lame excuses, one such as she needs to trust me (WTF?) and was swiftly distracted by her engaging in physical intimacy, a classic maneuver.
After utilizing several tactics have caught her telling lies about what they talked about or what she has told him about what has happened around here since I threatened to kick her out. Hint, Liars cannot re-tell stories based on lies due to no foundation for the memory to latch onto nor can she tell the story backwards. When tasked by this she gets completely flustered and doesn't remember.
And the classic line, "I need to find myself" .
I need some advice from some seasoned veterans, please fire away, hold nothing back. And if by chance there are any ladies lurking, let me know from a woman's perspective.
How do I combat an Emotional Affair?
How do I get her to admit to rug sweeping?
How do I combat the situation with the affair underground?
How do I get her to realize the damage that she has done?
Am I willing to kill the relationship between us? - Yes
Do I want to? - No
Yes, Kids are involved.
No, It has not gone Physical, but I cannot disprove phone sexting.
I am the bread winner.
She refuses to go transparent at all.
She insists he no longer feels in love with her nor her with him. (Details on this if asked can be provided)
She still has him as a FB Friend, but a hidden one and has removed me from her list.
When I asked to see her phone I got derailed by lame excuses, one such as she needs to trust me (WTF?) and was swiftly distracted by her engaging in physical intimacy, a classic maneuver.
After utilizing several tactics have caught her telling lies about what they talked about or what she has told him about what has happened around here since I threatened to kick her out. Hint, Liars cannot re-tell stories based on lies due to no foundation for the memory to latch onto nor can she tell the story backwards. When tasked by this she gets completely flustered and doesn't remember.
And the classic line, "I need to find myself" .
I need some advice from some seasoned veterans, please fire away, hold nothing back. And if by chance there are any ladies lurking, let me know from a woman's perspective.