When I had an iPhone, I could be on a call, switch to any other app on the phone (practically) and still not lose the call. If another app is open after the call ends, you don't go right into lockout.
I also like the idea of looking at the screen to see the smudge marks where the code numbers were punched in. You may not get the sequence right the first time, but with only 4 numbers (what most folks seem to use) it shouldn't take forever.
The VARs (Sony $50 at Best Buy) are simple enough even I could set it up on the right modes and record without a problem. The 2" heavy duty black velcro from
Walmart is great. My FWH never knew I had a VAR in his car. I never did hear any heating on the VAR but that is because I didn't get one until after he said he was done with his XOW, and I guess he meant it. No evidence anywhere any longer, and no more suspicious feelings for me.
If the smudges aren't clear wipe the screen clean with a soft cloth to remove stray smudges. That should increase the likelihood of success. (worked for me).
I got a VAR, but I haven't managed to put it in her car yet.
I tried using Dr. Phone to retrieve data from my iPhone, but was only able to pull data from my back up. I think I may be able to get a hold of her phone to do the same. I'm just not sure it will let me back the phone up without setting the phone to trust the computer, and I think you need the passcode for that.
I'm sure if I can access the information on her phone I'll find out everything I need to know.
No, Tuborg, you are a bad listener, and not very smart with the modern media.
So thread carefully, and follow just the advise. Stop especially your own line of thought.
While snooping, keep an eye on the fact that there is at this moment very little evidence, and only a couple of small red flags.
Not enough to conclude anything, so also have in mind it may be just normal behavior, which is colored by your own imagination to suspicious behavior. Now and then there will be no affair.
If you know her apple id and password (don't need the phone pin) you can add it to your phone and everytime someone sends her an iMessage it will be CC: to your phone and she will never know.
If you don't know her apple id and password try to trick her into giving it to you. Maybe as happyman suggested say you want to buy her a cd or movie and need the apple id to sync it to her phone.
Google how to do it, it's pretty simple to setup up.
Whoa there! I'd like to point out that, as soon as you do this, she'll get a notification on any and all iDevices (iPhone, iPad, MacBook, etc.) on which she currently has iMessage set up. Given this, you'll want to to do this at such a time that you have access to ALL such devices.
Edit: She'll also receive an e-mail notification, so you'll have to be able to intercept this as well. After you delete it, remember to empty it from the "Trash" as well.
I just googled it, apparently you can retrieve data from a locked phone with Dr. Phone. I didn't see that option when I tried, I think perhaps I don't have the full version of the app.
Does anyone know if iPhone messages would some how appear on an iPad?
She has an iPad, and I know it's not password protected, I'm sure she uses it to check emails and watch shows. It's rarely arround, but she does leave it unattended occasionaly.
If she has iMessage set up on it w/ her account then, yes, iMessages will show up. SMS messages sent directly to her phone number, however, will not, and the same limitation exists with you setting up her iMessage account on your iPhone.
I have been following this thread to learn of new techniques. I had my ww gmail password and the dumb ass forgot it and made a new one. I wanted to scream it out and even made conversation of the ps name to help her remember. Weightlifter gave me a great one where if you have the gmail password you can look at the google history. worked like a charm until she changed it.
Wiping the phone screen for smudges is my next move. by the way, VAR is the way to go always
There was poster in another website that used a small hidden camera to capture his WW entering her passcode. If I remember correctly, he place it up in a light fixture(pointing down) in a place where his WW regularly checked her messages. Worked on the first day he placed it. He also place a VAR in her purse. He cut a small slit in the inside lining and taped it to the inside leather. Posted via Mobile Device
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