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#1 ·
Hello all,

Recently, I have become very suspicious about my wife’s behaviour.

I would just like to know what others have done to find out if their spouse has cheated.

I’ve thought about checking her phone, but I can’t seem to bring myself to do that.

Thanks in advance.
 
#213 ·
She said she had dinner with some friends. I believe her. She hasn't been "sweaty" the last couple of weeks.

Last weekend she bought us tickets to a play, took me out for dinner, and bought me a book. It kind of makes me think that she may be compensating.

This Whatsapp activity is very peculiar to me. She obviously only uses it to communicate with one person. Why not use reguarl text?

Still haven't called her yet, will shortly. I'm sure that will shed some light on things.
 
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This Whatsapp activity is very peculiar to me. She obviously only uses it to communicate with one person. Why not use reguarl text?
More than likely as regular text is traceable. It shows up on a phone bill generally, dependent on the carrier (as some don't collect that information). Also regular text can cost between countries and may be limited depending on the plan the person has (I used to not have text as I could do everything with data, IM through data, and email), whereas WhatApp allows between countries without charges.
 
#222 ·
She was out with friends? What she supposed to be at class but changed at the last minute without telling you? and then was already home?

Sorry... but when I go out with my female cousins to catch up, we are four hours later getting home...

That sounds like a lie to me Darlin' unless they hit fast food. Even fast food for us is not home early.

She knows you are looking...

AND yes, she could be compensating... my H did that to me... to throw me off the trail.
 
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It sounds like y'all live very separate lives... not "prying" into the affairs of the other... there is a healthy prying that serves to protect the relationship. It is ok to ask the right questions. Not asking at all is almost as bad or worse than asking with the wrong intent.
 
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#227 ·
This I can't understand
Man mistrusts wife. Wife's mode of transport is car. Man doesn't know where wife is. Man wants to follow her but is afraid he'll get noticed.

.... why doesn't man put a GPS tracker in wife's car. Because with a GPS you can do that silly thing called....tracking where your wife is going...

just saying
 
#231 ·
Why haven't you put a gps in her car?


Why haven't you put a gps in her car?


Why haven't you put a gps in her car?


Why haven't you put a gps in her car?

:scratchhead:

Do it, please.
I can't quite put my finger on it, but I feel like there's a hidden message somewhere in here...
 
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