Hi there,
I just found out 2 days ago that my husband of 7 years have cheated on me with multiple girls for the past 2 years. This is not the first time he got caught, but this is the first time he admitted that he did engage in sexual behaviors with this women.
He wants me to stay and give him ANOTHER chance. I have nothing left in me but of course it is hard to just leave. We have 2 kids and it is not easy to make such decision.
He agreed to counseling and told me he will do anything to change. the ONE thing that bothers me the most is he doesnt want to get into details about the affairs. I mean...I know there is no advantage of knowing the details (I'm sure it will lead to more pain) but I just have to know..more and more and more! I could never be satisfied with his answers!
To those of you who have gone through this, what did you do to stop asking. And does asking really make things worse?
Thanks, you guys!
Tiara
I just found out 2 days ago that my husband of 7 years have cheated on me with multiple girls for the past 2 years. This is not the first time he got caught, but this is the first time he admitted that he did engage in sexual behaviors with this women.
He wants me to stay and give him ANOTHER chance. I have nothing left in me but of course it is hard to just leave. We have 2 kids and it is not easy to make such decision.
He agreed to counseling and told me he will do anything to change. the ONE thing that bothers me the most is he doesnt want to get into details about the affairs. I mean...I know there is no advantage of knowing the details (I'm sure it will lead to more pain) but I just have to know..more and more and more! I could never be satisfied with his answers!
To those of you who have gone through this, what did you do to stop asking. And does asking really make things worse?
Thanks, you guys!
Tiara