cheatedonagain

I am a 34 year old man that has been married to my wife for 13 years now.In the start of the relation ship, it was great. We have a 12 year old son, 5 year old son and a 4 year old son. About two years ago the sex just stopped. We would only have sex maybe once every six months till about a year ago it went to about every week. Then this last weekend we had a christmas party. It was just close friends and family. Some of our neighbors had stopped by to share in some holiday cheer. Come about midnight everyone started to leave. My wife was just about on her lips from drinking so much. I ran to the store and when I came home she had told me that she had made out with the neighbor and he had put his hand well nevermind. A couple friends had also said the same. The next morning I had asked her about it and she said that it didn't happen. I asked a couple days later and she had said that he kissed her and she pushed him away. Now I have slept with her every other day for a week now.any time I just think about it she wants to. I am lost, did she do it, didn't she and why is she all of the sudden sleeping with me all the time? Her attitude has changed and all of my friends say that she has cheated on me. What am I supposed to do and think? I know to many questions but these are a few going through my mind.

jamesa

Start looking for evidence. Phone calls, texts, emails, witnesses...whatever.

wolf359

I think she may have done something bad. Some women that feel guilty, will try to please men like this. I would set up cameras or voice recorders in the car, or home. Ask her close friends if she is OK, maybe they will spill the beans. Look at the phone logs, for a number, or long texts. Look for a pay as you go cell phone in her car, or purse. Check were she goes, have a friend track her that she does not know. Talk to the guy that she did that with. Put software on the computer, that takes a picture every 30 secs to a min. It logs the pics to a folder, so you can play it back later. She will never know it is on the computer. Talk to us about more of what her life is like, what she does, work ,how long does she stay home at night. New friends, if she is getting around 40 - 50 it may be menopause that is lighting her fire. Read more on this site it will help you a lot. Also when people drink all is out for recess!!!!! I my self can not be trusted to drink at all. I get so wild that people can not believe it's me. I have mad a *ss out of myself and do not remember a thing the next day. It scares me to drink I lose my memory every time.