My ex had 3 bertayals that I was aware of.
The first was with a wealthy man who she chased to have a lavish lifestyle. He, literally, threw out his wife and 2 kids to move mine in. I was totally unaware. Because she was more chasing him (as I was told) I had no real thoughts of taking after him.
The second was a rebound betrayal after she was thrown out of the wealthy man's house and came crawling back begging forgiveness. That guy was simply pouncing on a weak woman. When I caught him at my house I lit into him. Not like it appears on TV (a lot of missed or blocked punches and pushing really), but I knocked him down good with a punch (I used to box) and wrestled/threw him out of the house.
The third was with some POS and she was taking off her wedding ring and told him she wasn't married. I can forgive that as he had no idea of her marriage.
But beat downs, to me, can be a right response. Not in every case, but in some.
The first was with a wealthy man who she chased to have a lavish lifestyle. He, literally, threw out his wife and 2 kids to move mine in. I was totally unaware. Because she was more chasing him (as I was told) I had no real thoughts of taking after him.
The second was a rebound betrayal after she was thrown out of the wealthy man's house and came crawling back begging forgiveness. That guy was simply pouncing on a weak woman. When I caught him at my house I lit into him. Not like it appears on TV (a lot of missed or blocked punches and pushing really), but I knocked him down good with a punch (I used to box) and wrestled/threw him out of the house.
The third was with some POS and she was taking off her wedding ring and told him she wasn't married. I can forgive that as he had no idea of her marriage.
But beat downs, to me, can be a right response. Not in every case, but in some.