He believes that he is the only man she has ever been with. When they separated temporarily for a couple of months, she slept with 5 other guys and conceived a child. Her husband believes it is his child. She tells me it could be one of the other men's child but she thinks it is her husband's because shes says the child looks like him. I know that her husband is suspicious because she told me he has asked her if their two children are his. I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt and thought "well maybe she'll end up telling him" but it's been a year and she still hasn't told him, and she says she never plans on telling him that she slept with these other men because it's not a big deal to her.
I've just been feeling really guilty for not telling him. He's also my friend and he has been so nice to me. A large part of me says it's none of my business. But another part says that if it were me, I would want to know.
What do you guys think?
Yep, I get that, H was going to school and daughter was present but I had no intention of anything happening, I'm not attracted to him in the slightest. I didn't think he would actually hit on me.
WTF is wrong with people? Left and right shabby stuff like this happens. His wife cheats on him and then leaves him- then he decides to come hit on a married woman? And a married woman that obviously has a problem with cheating (who told him he was being cheated on)...
I dont know whats more tragic- his total lack of morals or the apparent non-existence of his intelligence
Well one good thing came out of all this. You have learned that both of them are bottom feeders and you can now shut both of them out of your life without guilt.
There was no reason for him to come over. There was no reason for you to let him. He seems to be a bit manipulative. Don't let him take advantage of your decency.
If you ever see him again, it will only be with your H there. Still, not recommended.
You may as well treat him as some other single guy. On the prowl...
The W lied to him to get him off the scent and on to you as the evil one.
What did your husband think when you told him you texted some guy all night and arranged to meet up.
** sorry, Intentionally shocking note. Wanted to send you a message, not accusation. Keep boundaries. It's the greatest gift you can give your hubbie!
I wouldnt be so much worried about my wife cheating as much as all the crazies running around out there. There was a story recently about a Marine that killed his AP (who was pregnant prolly with his child) and threw her to the bottom of a 140 foot mine shaft (!!).
If the guy isnt someone I know well, I wouldnt be comfortable with my kid and wife being in a secluded place (house) without me being there.
Also a good time to learn that, whether they act on it or not, 85% of all men are looking at you and considering having sex with you. It's just what men do. Aside from more enlightened men such as come here, that's what you deal with every day.
The presence of your baby didn't give him pause but your husband coming home apparently scared him off. I doubt his wife told him that -- probably just fishing to see if you would bite.
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