draconis

We are here for you. You might consider a keylogger to find out what he really is p too.

draconis

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Amplexor

Hang tough blugirl2007

Sometimes it takes a literal shock for a spouse to realize how deeply troubled a marriage is. Not to appear sexist but I think men suffer from this weakness more than women. It wasn’t until I discovered my wife’s emotional affair that I truly understood. It is referred to as therapy with a 2x4 and it snapped me back into the marriage. Maybe too late. If he decides to stay in the relationship work with him and take your time. Trust is hard to recover and has to be earned by the offending partner. Good luck.

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blugirl2007

thanks! I really appreciate it. My bag is still packed and by the door. As if he hasnt already had enough "2nd" chances so to speak...I am going to give him 1 more. But I told him that this was it....

Thanks again for the support and hopefully I can come back with some positive news.

merry

Trust me he is still cheating on YOU!!!!!! Talked to him - if he wants to be with you he need to cut, I mean cut all the communication . Other wise you need to separate from him .
Life is too little to be wasted ..

blugirl2007

Well so far so good. He has not contacted the other girl as far as I can tell, and I have been doing lots of digging...and he hasnt been going on any chat websites or anything...maybe I scared him enough. My guard is still very high and I am still watching very carefully.

I just wanted to say thanks for all of the comments and support....I will be on my toes and ready if I find that he isnt going to make this work.


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robin

I am proud of you. Be strong and if he cheats again (even on chate websites) dump the chump. You deserve way better. The trust thing will probably linger and will take time. He will have to prove himself. Remember we are all here for you.

Robin
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bluebutterfly0808

just beware! there are other ways to communicate! he could use a tracphone! how would you ever know? just be a super detective & look in his car, etc. good luck! we will be thinking of you & sending you lots of strength!