Re: Is it time to give up?
Yes. You are. Here's how it should go down. "Hubby, I love you very much and would like our marriage to work. Not just a 'good' marriage, but the outstanding, exceptionally great marriage that few people have. I want you to be my best friend and someone we can mutually count on. So, what I'm going to ask of you is that you stop your PA and recommit to me and our marriage. If you are willing to do that, I am willing to commit unconditionally to meeting your needs. Let's start by talking about what it is that you need from me. What needs am I not meeting? What are you getting from the other woman that I am not meeting for you?"