Re: Sleeping in separate room okay?
Thanks Saffron! For the most part you are right, it is not my situation. The only part that is, is that I keep finding things out. She ha been transparent to a point. I have passwords, and FB account info, and I always had access to our phone bill. But, I keep finding things out, like about money she had hidden away, I just found that out this morning. She said at first it was in case we divorced, (because she knew I would get the kids) but the said it was for that get away we talked about. (she asked last week that once we get caught up on bills, and get more settled if we could go on a getaway, I said I would think about it). I know it is normal, and it is called the "trickle truth" but dammit....har har, it sucks...I guess I am venting about how much it sucks.