When will she snap out of it...

BrianE · 06-18-2011, 06:03 PM

Oh, I'm not doing that. I haven't bought or said anything nice to her or led her on in anyway.

I'm talking, last separation agreement I offered a $2k lump sum and she can watch the girls during the day and I'll pay her $200/mo for that. Stuff like that.

I haven't said I love you, or I want you back or anything. The other day she was asking about furniture for her apartment. I was saying I can help her out with that. I can give you some of the furniture in the separation agreement so you can get out of my life. Her biggest thing is not wanting to give up full custody to me. Even though my lawyer says we have a damn good case if it went to court anyways.

ahhhmaaaan! · 06-18-2011, 06:15 PM

This is what I mean-"The other day she was asking about furniture for her apartment. I was saying I can help her out with that." Let her figure it out herself, or ask the OM man to do it. Your still her lap dog, bro. Don't you see that? She has no ides of how hard it would be without you if you keep on digging her out of her hole. She needs to fend for herself, so she can realize what she's missing in YOU- GET! IT

BrianE · 06-18-2011, 06:25 PM

No, what I'm trying to do is force her to sign a separation agreement under my terms so I can get her out of my life. Hell, like the $2k lump sum. If she signed after that I could save that on lawyer fees fighting. She's getting to know how hard it is b/c I haven't helped her 1 but for anything in a few months now. Just keep trying to get her to sign the a separation agreement.

She's not responding so next week the gloves come off and she'll start to be forced to make some type of action anyways.

ahhhmaaaan! · 06-18-2011, 06:33 PM

Press her on it. Let her know that you're not scared of being without her. She needs to be humbled. Don't do anything for her... no matter how trivial.