02-14-2011, 06:55 PM
Join Date: Oct 2009
| | Re: A question for cheaters. Is this even possible?
Originally Posted by pacmouse
My only doubt is that when I asked him how he feels today about the OW, he says he never thinks of her. I asked if he misses her and his response was "no!" Is this even possible?
Is he just trying to spare my feelings? Or, is it possible, that once you're out of the fog, you are free of emotional feelings for your "lover?"
Well, I hope it's possible because that's the same answer my H has given me. He has told me he NEVER thinks of her. The only time he even thinks about the A is when I bring it up and he is forced to! I, too, find it a litle hard to believe but he is adamant that she never crosses his mind.