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post #1 of 2 (permalink) Old 02-28-2011, 05:51 PM Thread Starter
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is this normal?

was doing some looking around at the stages of grief, is it normal to have almost all of them at once? I have had denial, anger, hate, acceptance, the whole bag of worms all at once today. Massive ups and downs.
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Re: is this normal?

Is it normal?

You posted in my thread so I guess you already saw my example of a screwed up mind on the different stages. And in addition to them, I would say YES it is normal to have those feelings all at once.
My wife sometimes never knew if it was safe to cuddle me, if she didn't cuddle me she got what for and various other emotions all thrown in at the same time. Thankfully time has made my emotion more stable in that when I get angry I just stay angry.

It is tough going I know.

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