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Old 03-13-2011, 02:19 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Dont have kids with him, divorce him and TELL HIM you are doing because you lacked self control since you cant keep your legs closed. You are doing him a favor since he can now find a loving, loyal non-**** that won't give him doubts whe he's serving our country.
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Old 03-13-2011, 04:15 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Posted 2 days ago, no replies and no further activity with this being the only post. I dont think she is coming back.
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Old 03-13-2011, 04:43 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Yep, gone.

But I am telling the truth, "It only happened One Time.".
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Old 03-13-2011, 04:46 PM   #19 (permalink)
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When they realize nobody is going to tell them what they want to hear, you don't see them again.
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Old 03-14-2011, 09:44 AM   #20 (permalink)
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When they realize nobody is going to tell them what they want to hear, you don't see them again.
Yup. I think what she wanted to hear was "Don't ever tell him"
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Old 03-14-2011, 01:06 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Very well...when I came on, I was kind of looking for that too, but I did more reading of other peoples stories, and it hit me like a mack truck. I was like WTF was I thinking???? It had all made so much sense, as I had not been thinking clearly for so long. Some people can't take the heat/consequences of their actions. Perhaps she will come back after some stuff sinks in.
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Old 03-14-2011, 03:02 PM   #22 (permalink)
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Paramore,

What you say is so much "truer" than most people can or want to believe.

About a month after D-Day my wife had her WTF was I thinking epiphany. She had been lying for years about previous affairs and got sucked into another with her long lost college boyfriend. She stated that confusion and fantasy had replaced reality at some point in her mind. If I had not seen it for myself, there is no way you could convince me that someone you knew for 30 years could bend their reality so far and except a re-write of history that made no sense at all. For example, she really thought our grown children would except her "new" husband and be happy for her that she had finally found true happiness and love. Say What!
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Old 03-14-2011, 05:14 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Oh I know right??? lol
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