Re: Wife texting male co-worker daily for the past month or so
Your wife is engaged on an emotional affair,there is a plan to follow. Tonight confront her advise her you know she is in an affair, she stops now and ceases all contact in and out of work. She will say she is not , she will lie, she will deny, she will say they are working together, she is following a script . Do NOT doubt yourself. Affair persons have the ability to convince you there is no affair and you as the betrayed spouse will want to trust her. Trust your instinct.
Unless you are able to obtain copies of the text messages she will continue to deny this , be calm , resolute , no anger and especial no fear . Your only comment is she is in an affair and she has to cease all contact with immediate effect. Walk away and do not say anything else. Your behaviour must be such that she is worried what you are going to do.
Never disclose your next steps and learn to keep quiet , smile , your very action should cause her discomfort.
In the interim you obtain and secure his number, find out if he is has a girlfriend , who his parents and friends are. This one is a challenge obtain her company email list with as many of her and his co-workers names and email addresses .
If you have the constitution call him and ensure he know you know he is in an inappropriate relationship with your wife, make it clear you will fight for your marriage and will do everything to protect your wife and family be it at his work or on his private life, do not debate close the call and say bye.
It is easy to falter and look for reasons to believe this is innocent, dispel that theory now.
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Last edited by Eli-Zor; 03-17-2011 at 02:26 PM.