Thanks Sweet Love. Sometimes you have to talk it out with others to get good advice. I should definately share these thoughts with her.
yes, also tell her that too. That you didnt knew how ot bring the subject about and that you were a bit coward with it.
Thats wahgt women think and say between each others, so she will know youa re being sincere and will be immensely thanfull for you to be so.
She will appreciate ti a lot. That now oyu dont need someone in between to have the courage to say those things.
She is your wife, you make love with her and oyu lvie with her, youshouldnt be scared of her to talk about those things with her.
Its embarassing for you, but the whole thing is anyway, and the sooner oyu get that talk going the sooner you will feel both releived form a big weight and will begin to feel much much better.
Have that talk with ehr tonight, and talk of it also tommorow, and as liong it takes for her and you to ocme over it, and also do the things i told you about before.
Tell her too that she did nothign wrong and that your marriage is not in danger at al that you just did a selfish folish thing, and that you are scared as she is to lose it all.
I am sure thats the thought she go around with, becasue you didnt came up wiht it yet, eyes to eyes, at home.. oyu have been like ignoring the matter.
Come up wiht it.
Deal with it head on, take the bull by the horns, and get over it.
Once you will have done it, you will ask oyurself why on earth you waited so long.
I htink that your wife is more worried by your actual attitude cause she can see you have changed than by that thing..
and oyu act differently becasue oyu are worrying that she is worrying about it..
All you ahve ot do is tobegin to talk about the matter.
After you can also tel her yoru own view about cheating and have a debate about it. It will be healthy too.
Dont fear to talk it through and dont fear to do it every evening.
After a week the subject wont scare oyu any more nor you, and it will help a lot at getting over it once and for all.
yes you needed to talk it over with friends and i am sure she did so with her friends who told her.. "once a cheater"... so thats also why she si scared.. and told her " wait til he bring it up himself dont push him" and so on..
break the ice Samuel, she is waiting for it, and she needs it as much as you do.
Some problems go over by not touchign him, but htat one is not one of them.. that one is one of the kind who get worse if not taken up in good time.
So do it tonight, and free you both.