My wife cheated and lied again
I caught my wife cheating on me about 6 years ago when we were engaged, I've tryed to get over it and I thought that I had till about 3 months ago when I found out that she had done it again... She was out of state visiting the same friend in the same place as the first time, but this time she had an affair with a married man with two kidds and she is married to me with one kid. To make matters worse I confrounted her on this about a year ago and she just made me feel like I was crazy and started turning it around were she was accusig me of cheating(which I never have)She didn't come clean until I insisted that we go get help. To me I feel that this step is making things worse, I'm realizing how selfish she is, Everything that happen bad in our relationship ends up my fault even her cheating? How is that... So guess what my question is, is by forgiving her again giving her permission to keep hurting me? How do I move on in the marriage? Do I call it quits? What about my son what is best for him? I am really confused because I still love the person I thought I married and want it to work, but on the other hand is she still that person, and how could she still love me and land in the arms of another man. Please help me figure this out, because I don't think I can do it on my own...
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