03-02-2012, 08:44 AM
Join Date: Apr 2011
| | Re: after d-day stuff..
At this point i think getting in a new relationship is not what I can handle. However anything else would be cool.
As for trusting her. I wouldn't 100%. But that goes for all women now. But our shared history and our son work to her benefit if she's willing to do the heavy lifting if/when she wants back.
That said, the ppl she work with and who "spy" for me tell me it isn't all puppy dogs amd rainbows. He's become needy amd clingy. Always hovering around her. He's pushing alright and it's been said that she's been pushing back. As well she got transferred out of her department that she loved working in to a different department. One she's not to find of. And she knows the affair has something to do with it. I don't think their relationship is gonna last. My therapist has said as much as well as all suppored info
Oh one more thing I forgot, his soon to be ex told me about this thing be has called epididymitis. I told her about it because not only was I concerned but it could affect me. Oddly enough she didn't know he had it. She confronted him and boy did he not like it. Not to mention there was only one source. So he ended up texting his ex, who forwarded the text to me. It said please drop off kids at scheduled time, and please don't share my medical history with,,,(me). My case of epididymitis is my concern". Even tho it isn't.
My wife found out about that text. The kicker is he told her that he laid in to his ex and put her her in her place. That he "handled" it. The reality is the text was the only communication they had. So she called him out on the text, the lie and the sharing of info.
The ex got another text that said " you shared the text with ..(me). What's the point?"
He's become extremely cold to his ex, where he was trying to warm up to her a month ago. I know it doenst mean much. But now I'm in tha f'ers head. And that feels good.
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