SadSamIAm

Unfricking believable!!!

There will be no counselling. She won't have to get a job. She will continue 'non' home schooling the kids.

She can leave, screw the other guy for a week. Come home and all is forgiven over Lasagna.

8yearscheating

Best of luck HTN. Make sure she does the work and shows the actions. Don't abandon this place. I know there is lot of just dump her here but there are folks who will cheer you on if R is what you desire. Only you know all the details and only you can read what she's doing though love definitely taints your vision. PM me your email. Having R'd I can be a resource to you and a sounding board. I wish you all the best on your journey!

KathyGriffinFan

Most women cheat? Really?

Your main reason for staying with her, is because the next one might not be better?

KathyGriffinFan

That is my main point of contention as well. There are no repurcussions for her actions, and for TN to take her back without any questions asked, is a recipe for disaster.

I truly feel bad for the guy but I hope I'm wrong and all works out well.

On a lighter note, maybe TN really loves him some lasagna...kinda like Garfield?

8yearscheating

Okay everyone - you beat him up for his beliefs. Now your beating him up and predicting a horrible future for him. Why in gods name would he want to stay on here? You don't know precisely how he is handling it and NONE of you can predict what she will do. You may all be right. Think of how good it will feel to say nah nah nah nah nah, we were right and you got your heat torn out!

8yearscheating

At the time when he needs help navigating treacherous waters, you drive him to cut the lifeline from the people bailing water into his boat!

Jellybeans

Nobody ever wants to be right about these things, 8years.

You know that.

karole

I don't see where he was "beat up." He asked for advice and got essentially the same advice from everyone except you.

8yearscheating

I know that JB. But the thrashing on here for HTN was as usual WAY TO MUCH.

8yearscheating

Go back and read Karole. You can only call someone an idiot so many times before they tune out.

Anymum

Very true 8-years.

Good luck HTN

pidge70

I agree with the fact that there was WAY too much bashing. He loves his wife, I get that. I do believe though that he is letting her back in way too quick. There are no repercussions for her actions. She knows how to play him, plain and simple. He went from saying he felt nothing good for her and in two hours he did a 180. I hope and pray it does work out, I fear that it will not. Good luck TN, I will be sending good thoughts your way. Take care.
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golfergirl

Wishing you the best HIT. Hurts my soul but hope you are free of pain.
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SadSamIAm

The reason I post what I do to Hunt is because I care. I think he is making a dreadful mistake.

I was being blunt because I want him to see how serious this is. What he is setting himself up for! What he is showing his kids!

8yearscheating - Do you really believe he is doing the right thing letting her step back in after what she did to their family, so quickly? Don't you think she needs to learn a lessen. To see that Hurt is strong enough to let her go.

karole

I don't believe anyone intentionally said anything to bash TN, to the contrary, I think most people here have his best interests at heart. Also, I don't see where anyone called him an idiot - a doormat - but not an idiot. It is extremely difficult to stand by and watch a train wreck.