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Old 04-17-2011, 09:35 PM   #1 (permalink)
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No this song is not "about infidelity" but I bet every one of you who has either been unfaithful or had an unfaithful spouse can relate to this song, and I just wanted to share (click on the pic to hear the song):

DIGGING IN THE DIRT


There's something in me
Dark and sticky
All the time it's getting strong
No way of dealing
With this feeling
I can't go on like this too long

This time you've gone too far
This time you've gone too far
This time you've gone too far
I told you, I told you, I told you, I told you
This time you've gone too far
This time you've gone too far
This time you've gone too far
I told you, I told you, I told you

Don't talk back
Drive the car
Shut your mouth
I know what you are
Don't say nothing
Keep your hands on the wheel
Don't turn around
This is for real

Digging in the dirt
Stay with me I need support
I'm digging in the dirt
To find the places I got hurt
Open up the places I got hurt

The more I look
The more I find
As I close on in
I get so blind
I feel it in my head
I feel it in my toes
I feel it in my sex
That's the place it goes

This time you've gone too far
This time you've gone too far
This time you've gone too far
I told you, I told you, I told you, I told you
This time you've gone too far
This time you've gone too far
This time you've gone too far
I told you, I told you, I told you

Don't talk back
Drive the car
Shut your mouth
I know what you are
Don't say nothing
Keep your hands on the wheel
Don't turn around
This is for real

Digging in the dirt
Stay with me I need support
I'm digging in the dirt
To find the places I got hurt
Open up the places I got hurt

Digging in the dirt
Find the places we got hurt
Digging in the dirt
Find the places
Digging in the dirt
Stay with me I need support
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Old 04-17-2011, 10:13 PM   #2 (permalink)
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how do I upload a music link?
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Old 04-18-2011, 05:43 AM   #3 (permalink)
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been listening to a lot of songs myself and the lyrics speak so much. ranging from pink floyd to katy perry!
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Old 04-20-2011, 11:44 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I love it!

My personal fave is Rolling in the Deep by Adele. I'd heard it on the radio and liked it, but I never really knew what it was about or listened to the lyrics until last night--and then it stayed on repeat all evening. I finally had to turn it off because I was getting all riled up and angry and didn't want to be, lol.
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Old 04-20-2011, 01:31 PM   #5 (permalink)
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What's that Guns N Roses song...? Somethig about "I used to love her, but then I killed her"?

That's the one I have running through my head.
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Old 04-20-2011, 01:36 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Linkin Park- One Step Closer. Very angry song for those who haven't heard it
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anything by Linkin Park lol, and LOVE that song by adelle, I crank it up and get all riled up. The one that got me all pissed and fired up the other day was "You oughta know" by Alanis Morissette,
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Old 04-20-2011, 02:04 PM   #8 (permalink)
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'Delia's Gone', by Johnny Cash
'Excitable Boy', by Warren Zevon
'Julia Pastrana', by Ass Ponys
'I Hope You Die', by Bloodhound Gang
'Not Dark Yet', by Bob Dylan
'Alpha Beta Parking Lot', by CAKE
'Dog Gone', by Frank Black and the Catholics
'Sex and Drugs and Rock and Roll', by Ian Dury and the Blockheads
'Let's Just Get Naked', By Joan Osborne
'Lake Marie', by John Prine
'Todd the T-1000', by Jonathan Coulton
'Burn in Hell', by Junior Kimbrough
'Pretty Good Day', by Loudon Wainwright III
'Car Wheels on a Gravel Road', by Lucinda Williams
'Jerusalem', by Matisyahu
'Spoiler Alert', by MC Frontalot
'Footprints on the Ceiling', by Social Distortion
'Really', by Nellie McKay
'How We Know', by The Thermals
'Destination Moon', by They Might Be Giants
'The Late Greats', by Wilco
and of course
'Casper the Homosexual Friendly Ghost', by The Wesley Willis Fiasco
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I love it!

My personal fave is Rolling in the Deep by Adele. I'd heard it on the radio and liked it, but I never really knew what it was about or listened to the lyrics until last night--and then it stayed on repeat all evening. I finally had to turn it off because I was getting all riled up and angry and didn't want to be, lol.
You MUST buy both of her cds! The best music I've heard in such a long time.
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Old 04-20-2011, 05:49 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Radiohead- "Cimbing Up The Walls"

Totally drove home my state of mind.
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ahh, I may youtube that song right now.
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Old 04-20-2011, 06:11 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Was thinking of the wife's OM this morning and cranked up "Feelings" by The Offspring.

Summed it up beautifully.
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No Dout - Happy Now?

One Republic - Apologize
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I Can't Make you Love me if You Don't - Bonnie Raitt
Jar of Hearts - Christina Perri
Land of Canaan - Indigo Girls
Not Ready to Make Nice - Dixie Chicks
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