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Old 04-20-2011, 07:52 PM   #1 (permalink)
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My H is involved with her. Not "just friends" I scoped her myspace page and found him leaving comments to her telling her he loves her and talking about having sex together.
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Old 04-20-2011, 08:02 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Pack his stuff up.
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Old 04-20-2011, 08:11 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I'm so sorry it came to this, but I'm glad you found what you needed. Take care of you as much as you can.
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I am so sorry Apple. You know the truth now. What are you going to do?
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Old 04-20-2011, 08:46 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I dont know.....I just dont know......
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this is sad.
i know it hit hard every time i found the proof of my ex. finally just had to let go and get myself completely away from it.
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Old 04-20-2011, 08:51 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Print out the proof and keep it in a safe place.
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Old 04-20-2011, 08:54 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Make copies, too, just in case. Personally, I'm getting a safety deposit box at a bank neither of us uses to keep the evidence, should I end up needing it.
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He's a **** and you are a great and wonderful woman.
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Old 04-20-2011, 09:00 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Awe damn, I'm sorry girl. At least you arent sitting on the fence anymore about his "just friends" excuse.. now you know that is bullsh*t. So the question is.. what happens for apple next?
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Old 04-20-2011, 09:09 PM   #11 (permalink)
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i have made a copy of the proof. i took all his clothes from our room and tossed them into the spare bedroom. i'm calling a lawyer first thing in the morning to see about getting him removed from the house.
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i have made a copy of the proof. i took all his clothes from our room and tossed them into the spare bedroom. i'm calling a lawyer first thing in the morning to see about getting him removed from the house.
dont know about where you are but in tennessee if there is no violence, there is nothing they can do about forcing one or the other out.
i hope even with everything going on you will not file a false report if there has been none.
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Old 04-20-2011, 09:27 PM   #13 (permalink)
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^Why would she file a false report?? I dont think she said she was going to and anyway that is irrelevant. Everything she has suspected she just found out is true.
My advice is to talk tot he lawyer and find out what the deal is. NO MORE SEX WITH HIM, MMMKay?
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Old 04-20-2011, 09:28 PM   #14 (permalink)
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File for legal seperation.. there will be judgement on who gets to stay in the house and what not.
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apple, now I know why you called, I will talk to you tomorrow k?
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