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Old 04-29-2011, 08:17 PM   #181 (permalink)
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omg i hate how stupid some ppl are! my ex did the same thing I wanted to beat him, but my daughter came home saying "I woke up cuz i heard daddy shaking the bed" It was disgusting. The next time he wanted them to visit I told him not to shake the bed with my kids around. I said my daughter heard everything.
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Old 04-29-2011, 08:19 PM   #182 (permalink)
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OMG! they can't wait to have sex until after the kids go back home really? geezus lol
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Old 04-29-2011, 09:36 PM   #183 (permalink)
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My H moved to a new office last December. The day he moved, I asked my 12 year old if he knew about the move. My son said "The only reason Dad switched offices is so he can be with (OW), my new step-mom!" That was my first hint of the affair!!!! And my poor son already knew. Duh!
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Old 04-29-2011, 09:41 PM   #184 (permalink)
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My H moved to a new office last December. The day he moved, I asked my 12 year old if he knew about the move. My son said "The only reason Dad switched offices is so he can be with (OW), my new step-mom!" That was my first hint of the affair!!!! And my poor son already knew. Duh!
**** the OW WS would be lucky to wake up the next morning if they told my children that.If you live out in the desert I have a solution for you a shovel a full tank of gas and if you want a gun but I suggest just duct tape. Drive thirty fifty miles out into the desert. Dig a whole remeber the mile marker from where you got off the freeway, now go back find husband. Hit on head with shovel. Duct tape his **** stained underwear into his mouth and bind his arms and legs well with duct tape. Put in trunk of car. Drive back out to desert place husband in hole. Bury everything but his head. Slap him till he regains conciousness.Wait till panic leaves his eyes. Look him in eyes smile lovingly and walk off.
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oh bip and loveless, I am so sorry.
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Old 04-29-2011, 10:57 PM   #186 (permalink)
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Get ready to vomit. I found this on the ow myspace page. My H wrote this to her.....You feel as if you are not good enough for someone. Have you ever thought you deserve better? That this person/s don't deserve to breathe the same air as you and should be blessed just to be able to be in your presence. You are a bright light in an otherwise dark place. You deserve so much more. Please don't think it is all you. Some are too cowardly and stupid to grasp what is in front if them, yearning for their love. You are not just good enough, you are perfect.
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Old 04-29-2011, 10:59 PM   #187 (permalink)
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I am telling you all lots of room out in the desert, we can create some phenomenom people will debate about for years how did so many people end up in the desert from varying backgrounds.
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Get ready to vomit. I found this on the ow myspace page. My H wrote this to her.....You feel as if you are not good enough for someone. Have you ever thought you deserve better? That this person/s don't deserve to breathe the same air as you and should be blessed just to be able to be in your presence. You are a bright light in an otherwise dark place. You deserve so much more. Please don't think it is all you. Some are too cowardly and stupid to grasp what is in front if them, yearning for their love. You are not just good enough, you are perfect.
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Get ready to vomit. I found this on the ow myspace page. My H wrote this to her.....You feel as if you are not good enough for someone. Have you ever thought you deserve better? That this person/s don't deserve to breathe the same air as you and should be blessed just to be able to be in your presence. You are a bright light in an otherwise dark place. You deserve so much more. Please don't think it is all you. Some are too cowardly and stupid to grasp what is in front if them, yearning for their love. You are not just good enough, you are perfect.
A "perfect" tramp and homewrecker.

And I really don't say this often, but KICK HIM IN THE B@LLS!!!
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**** the OW WS would be lucky to wake up the next morning if they told my children that.If you live out in the desert I have a solution for you a shovel a full tank of gas and if you want a gun but I suggest just duct tape. Drive thirty fifty miles out into the desert. Dig a whole remeber the mile marker from where you got off the freeway, now go back find husband. Hit on head with shovel. Duct tape his **** stained underwear into his mouth and bind his arms and legs well with duct tape. Put in trunk of car. Drive back out to desert place husband in hole. Bury everything but his head. Slap him till he regains conciousness.Wait till panic leaves his eyes. Look him in eyes smile lovingly and walk off.
Niceguy not sounding so nice. . . I like it!!!
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Old 04-30-2011, 02:27 AM   #191 (permalink)
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I am actuallynot that nice of a guy just to people I care about, in reality I am twisted ****ed up person. And if my wife pulled that **** with my child to where oh this is your new stepfather before even coming to me yeah... desert...duct tape....shovel. Probaly go as far as place OM in front of her with his new second smile while she baked in the desert everyday.....Told you I am sick
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nothing wrong with a warped sense of humor.
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Old 04-30-2011, 08:47 AM   #193 (permalink)
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Yes, vomit!

So OW was flying into town last Friday and I was able to see her facebook page. She posted that she was about to fly to FL and my H wrote "I can't friggin wait!!!!!!" with a bunch of hearts. Then she posted when she was leaving her layover and how excited she was and he posted, "Only 2 more hours until I get my hug" and then someone told him to give her best hug ever and he replied, "Oh, I will give her the biggest hug she's ever had and never let her go." VOMIT!
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Old 04-30-2011, 11:07 AM   #194 (permalink)
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I'm sorry Lost, that is so hard to have to read. Who do our spouses think they are? That note my H wrote to the OW, which sounded all sweet and caring, he never spoke that way to me. Why does she get to have a nice side of him and I get walked all over? Why does he think he needs to be her hero and I get left behind?
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Old 04-30-2011, 04:51 PM   #195 (permalink)
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@LOL . . . Double VOMIT

@Apple . . . My H used to be SO SWEET to me. Then, during his text/email affair, he'd send me endearments, and then send almost the same to her!!!! He was on a business trip to San Diego and sent me a photo of the harbor from his hotel window. Caption " Beautiful, just like you!" I read his email, and HER caption was "Such a beautiful view, wish I could share it with you!"
Just twisted!!!!
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