I'm half tempted tro write a lot of things too, Paramore. I'm also half tempted to rub posion ivy on the insides of his underwear. I'm half tempted to infest her car with fleas or lice or spiders. But, I won't. Unlike them, I do know right from wrong even when wrong seems so right.
or.. "dont be surprised if, you do decide to be with my H, one day he trips and falls and his penis winds up in some other woman"
Or this! LOL
Originally Posted by paramore
This woman is what rhymes with the word runt.
Oh come on, just say it. She is a c-nt. Of massive proportions. Seriously, she makes me ill. I am not trying to make you more angry, Apple, but the thought of her sitting in your own driveway at your marital home, waiting for your hub, is something that makes me want to smack her for you.
Originally Posted by AppleDucklings
she has yet to write me back. Did I say something?? O_O
She is probably digesting everything you wrote and *hopefully* realizing the destruction and damage she has caused.
What is up the legal stuff? Did you see the lawyer? Anything new?
Since he no longer considers you married, time to kick his sorry ass to the curb...I know it's easier said than done, but you don't deserve this kind of treatment. Since he says he's in love with another woman, then she can put up with him...until somebody else catches his eye, or she decides to kick him out.
Good luck..I wish you all the best.
If you haven't alread (I just jumped ahead to post a reply) please don't contact her again, and make sure she knows you don't want to be contacted.
One HUGE thing that was wrong with your letter was that you explained that she damaged you. She hurt you. Her actions made you cry. Girl, you are barking up a dead tree. She DOESN'T CARE that she hurt you, so you have to stop telling her that. You can whine at her all you want, but she's not going to care. What you HAVE to do now, if she contacts you again, is show some ANGER and DISCIPLINE and lay down LAWS AND RULES.
You are giving her power by showing your weak side to her. Enough is enough. If you do come in contact again, show her your power. Show her you won't stand for her anymore. She's crossed your line and she's not sorry, and she doesn't care...and she KNOWS she can stay over that line because you're allowing her to see that you're wounded.
Are you angry enough now to understand that its time to cross HER line? Push her back where she belongs? STOP telling her that you're injured and weak. SHOW her what your rules are and that you are a strong woman.