Been married to soon to be ex wife for 10 years togather, have three kids, always been working full time and she worked part time while going to post grad school, we both from good finacial families.
I went to doctor last month for first time general exam, due to history of Diabetes in family found out about the virus. was shoked, i thought he was joking, it took me an hour release he was series. I never cheated, never kissed or held or huged anyone except my wife.
before rushing home with a pistol with my hand i went to the park and took me a deep breath, then went home, called her mother to pick the kids so we can have talk with wife.
I asked her about her affair, who is she having an affair with, her face got blu was like what you are talking about, with red angry face I asked again and again. after argument and fights picked her phone and found numeruse calls and text from one person. she broke down and told me she had an affair with this man she met in business trip that work in same company and she been with him for more than a year.
she said she love me but not in love with me but still love me, and she is in love with other man. so I broke the news to her and told her what docotor found in the blood test. she thought i was saying that because i was angry. I showed her the papers and she almost passed out, crying, screaming. I kicked her out the house in her PJs like a fealthy animal.
couldnt believe the once was love of my life would do that to me. i was soo in love with that woman I couldnt be happied, 10 years of love turned to super hate and disguesting in few hours.
she begged me and cried and knocked on doors and windows to talk to her, the next villa saw her and picked her up to calm down.
I told her my parents and her parents about the situation. after few days, she got hold me, and I asked her what happen, it seemed the guy she in love with cheated on her while in vegas and gave her the virus then she passed to me. she broke up with that guy and he also left her.
without her knowldge, I took the kids and I flew back home Russia, leaving everything back in US, and told her if she need to settle things she needs to fly to russia and deal with russia court system because American court system when it comes to a father is just a total .....
I have to live what left from my life devoted to my kids only. im still blessed and glad to have wonderful kids.