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Old 04-29-2011, 03:23 PM   #46 (permalink)
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Yeah me neither, I am gonna be extremely gun shy if I EVER decide to go down that road again, I just don't know if I'd want to go through all of that again after all this crap.
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Old 04-29-2011, 03:27 PM   #47 (permalink)
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I couldn't even enjoy a sex fantasy about the hottie at the lumber yard today because for some reason I felt like I was "objectifying" her......thanks a lot, women of TAM
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Old 04-29-2011, 03:32 PM   #48 (permalink)
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It's not objectifying her, it's purely fantasy, you control what's in your mind, I say have at it LOL!!!!
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Old 04-29-2011, 03:42 PM   #49 (permalink)
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It's not objectifying her, it's purely fantasy, you control what's in your mind, I say have at it LOL!!!!
You know I'm going to run with that!

Speaking of eyes, I've always been told I have Travolta eyes. Usually by women who love that guy, guess I should hang out at Grease musicals when I'm on the market again hey!
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I couldn't even enjoy a sex fantasy about the hottie at the lumber yard today because for some reason I felt like I was "objectifying" her......thanks a lot, women of TAM
Is that somehow related to the "Do men really think this way" thread over in the Men's Club??? LOL
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Old 04-29-2011, 03:45 PM   #51 (permalink)
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Haha, I am actually having fun on the forum today, seems like there are people on not feeling so down in the dumps today, and for once I am not down in the dumps.
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Is that somehow related to the "Do men really think this way" thread over in the Men's Club??? LOL
Yeah, I'm too scared to say anything in there now!

I'm having fun too Paramore, must be friday! If I were in a city I'd be going out somewhere, somebody go party for me
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Yeah, I'm too scared to say anything in there now!

I'm having fun too Paramore, must be friday! If I were in a city I'd be going out somewhere, somebody go party for me
Ok!
I am off on a picnic with a woman I met online. She says "oh gawd, no way we are dating . You are so raw. Lets eat bagels.'
So I better go buy them.

I don't think it is hard to fall in love. In fact people do it all the time. Fall in. Fall out. It is the staying in love that is hard.

On the other side. I am in Mr Angry stage again. [recognize and validate feeling..lol] But to day you know what.
WE WILL MAKE IT.
I have a psychotic cat if anyone is interested?
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You gotta love how the men are scared in their own frickin clubhouse! HAHAHAHA
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Old 04-29-2011, 06:13 PM   #55 (permalink)
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ing....what did you do LOL
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Old 04-29-2011, 06:40 PM   #56 (permalink)
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Holy thread jack! Guys, go get a room, I mean thread, of your own. Lol.

I'm down for the sangria and I live near the beach. I have 2 cats to contribute to the bunch too.

And I'd totally get married again, just won't ever trust the same that marriage is forever. Or that he can keep his you know what in his pants.
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Old 04-29-2011, 06:51 PM   #57 (permalink)
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I know I have been terrible for that today...blame it on an actual good mood and felt like livening up the place with some fun and positive stuff, so my apologies, I really mean that. LOL, but to get this back on track, I am letting him go, not stopping my love for him just letting him go.
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:15 PM   #58 (permalink)
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ing....what did you do LOL

What i am doing is.. Letting Go.

I just can't continue to be in pain. I move fast on everything. She knows this. I warned her about four times.. Once I let you go. Your gone.

A dating site.. "Friends only" as my seeking criteria. Working for me.

What is the point of hanging on? Still hurts[heaps] but I will invent a new reality without her. This is Her CHOICE. Not mine.
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:15 PM   #59 (permalink)
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I'm not letting mine go. I'm kicking his miserable sorry pathetic ass right out the mother f*cking door!
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:17 PM   #60 (permalink)
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Wheeeee!!!!!!!
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