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Old 04-29-2011, 07:17 PM   #61 (permalink)
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*snort* that was awesome.. i almost peed.. ty apple!

And no... If I fell for every dude that looked at me sideways I wouldn't have been married for 15 years! :P
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:18 PM   #62 (permalink)
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What i am doing is.. Letting Go.

I just can't continue to be in pain. I move fast on everything. She knows this. I warned her about four times.. Once I let you go. Your gone.

A dating site.. "Friends only" as my seeking criteria. Working for me.

What is the point of hanging on? Still hurts[heaps] but I will invent a new reality without her. This is Her CHOICE. Not mine.
Ive seriously considered this myself, ing. Joining an online dating site and making friends. I'm not interested in a relationship but it would be nice to have the attention. I'm having a hard time with the pain too. Why cant I be happy just like he is?
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:20 PM   #63 (permalink)
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because you have a heart, he at this point, does not.
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:22 PM   #64 (permalink)
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Why cant I be happy just like he is?
Exactly. Why not indeed. He isn't suffering. Seeing her yesterday in the car [she didn't see me] laughing and smiling just made me more determined to move on.
Just do it.

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Old 04-29-2011, 07:22 PM   #65 (permalink)
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Sorry for the thread jack...

btw.. i let him go.. and hes out tonight with OW and his sister. Doors will be locked when/if he tries to come home.

I feel like i need to open a bottle of wine
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:23 PM   #66 (permalink)
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do it I am sipping some cap'n morgan right now, just sipping, I forgot to get something to mix it with lol.
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:25 PM   #67 (permalink)
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I don't drink ever... someone bought me a bottle of wine as a gift for my birthday in september... i wonder if its even good anymore lol
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:28 PM   #68 (permalink)
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wine gets better with age...have just one glass, you'll get all giggly, and then whoa, I am afraid of the fun you'll have on here LOL.
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:28 PM   #69 (permalink)
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I dont drink either but the thought of getting totally hammered has crossed my mind.
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:29 PM   #70 (permalink)
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darn it, we should stop threadjacking, you are a terrible influence hehe.
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:30 PM   #71 (permalink)
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darn it, we should stop threadjacking, you are a terrible influence hehe.
Moi? (looking innocent)
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:32 PM   #72 (permalink)
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This has turned into the "We are going to be Okay" thread Not so bad really.
Be careful with the drink it may make you crash into a heap. Did me.

We can be miserable some other time.
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:32 PM   #73 (permalink)
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yes, apple.. you lol
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:32 PM   #74 (permalink)
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wine gets better with age...have just one glass, you'll get all giggly, and then whoa, I am afraid of the fun you'll have on here LOL.
I remember talking to you one night on the phone and you weredrunk and for the life of you, you could not properly pronounce "Iowa" it was the darn funniest thing.
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:33 PM   #75 (permalink)
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Ioway lol
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